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Old 03-30-2010, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Russian Federation
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I had this argument with two beautiful women about what women actually want in their lives. I say that it’s natural that the prime desire of any woman is to feel like and be treated like a woman. It’s the same thing that men want to feel like and be treated like men. However, the only ACTUAL and SIGNIFICANT two roles that ONLY women are fit to play are a daughter and a mother. In everything else a man can replace a woman. Say, a nurse is usually a woman, but not always. A stewardess is usually a woman, but not always. A daughter is ALWAYS a woman. A mother is ALWAYS a woman. So every woman wants to be one or the other. It's been like that for centuries.
The ladies said that, well, I am wrong and it’s not 1940 anymore.

I know it’s kinda stupid for a guy to argue with women about what they want. They know themselves better. But my point of view – is the one from the side. My judgment is not clouded by feelings/emotions. So if I am wrong, please let me know how and why.
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Old 03-30-2010, 09:27 PM
 
Location: The OC
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A male doctor can be replaced by a woman too... A male engineer can also be replaced by a woman. What's your point?
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Old 03-30-2010, 09:28 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I had this argument with two beautiful women about what women actually want in their lives. I say that it’s natural that the prime desire of any woman is to feel like and be treated like a woman. It’s the same thing that men want to feel like and be treated like men. However, the only ACTUAL and SIGNIFICANT two roles that ONLY women are fit to play are a daughter and a mother. In everything else a man can replace a woman. Say, a nurse is usually a woman, but not always. A stewardess is usually a woman, but not always. A daughter is ALWAYS a woman. A mother is ALWAYS a woman. So every woman wants to be one or the other. It's been like that for centuries.
The ladies said that, well, I am wrong and it’s not 1940 anymore.

I know it’s kinda stupid for a guy to argue with women about what they want. They know themselves better. But my point of view – is the one from the side. My judgment is not clouded by feelings/emotions. So if I am wrong, please let me know how and why.
What if your mother gets a sex change? Yes she will always be your mother, yet not a woman anymore.
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Old 03-30-2010, 09:28 PM
 
Location: The OC
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Oh and btw I am not a "daughter" (I cut contact with my family years ago). And I don't ever want to get married or have kids (I dislike children). So what does that make me?
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:11 PM
 
Location: At the Lake (in Texas)
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And actually, what is your question and/or your point? Do you want to know if all of us women only aspire to be a daughter and a mother?
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:18 PM
 
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I had this argument with two beautiful women
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:34 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I had this argument with two beautiful women about what women actually want in their lives. I say that it’s natural that the prime desire of any woman is to feel like and be treated like a woman. It’s the same thing that men want to feel like and be treated like men. However, the only ACTUAL and SIGNIFICANT two roles that ONLY women are fit to play are a daughter and a mother. In everything else a man can replace a woman. Say, a nurse is usually a woman, but not always. A stewardess is usually a woman, but not always. A daughter is ALWAYS a woman. A mother is ALWAYS a woman. So every woman wants to be one or the other. It's been like that for centuries.
The ladies said that, well, I am wrong and it’s not 1940 anymore.

I know it’s kinda stupid for a guy to argue with women about what they want. They know themselves better. But my point of view – is the one from the side. My judgment is not clouded by feelings/emotions. So if I am wrong, please let me know how and why.

Well, the only ACTUAL and SIGNIFICANT two roles that ONLY men are fit to play are a son and a father

Maybe it's just a cultural thing (since it appears you are posting from Russia?) but your views on women seem a bit narrow and dated.
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:35 PM
 
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What if your mother gets a sex change? Yes she will always be your mother, yet not a woman anymore.
Well, yeah. There's always psychological disorders. And posters who use them as arguments.
C'mon, let's talk normal people here.

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Oh and btw I am not a "daughter" (I cut contact with my family years ago). And I don't ever want to get married or have kids (I dislike children). So what does that make me?
It makes you sweet.

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And actually, what is your question and/or your point? Do you want to know if all of us women only aspire to be a daughter and a mother?
I want to know if women acknowledge it
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:37 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Well, yeah. There's always psychological disorders. And posters who use them as arguments.
C'mon, let's talk normal people here.



It makes you sweet.



I want to know if women acknowledge it

You want to know if women acknowledge that only we can be mothers and daughters?

Well sure we do - we learned that in sex education back in our school days! (Just like we learned that only men get to be daddies and sons)
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Russian Federation
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Well, the only ACTUAL and SIGNIFICANT two roles that ONLY men are fit to play are a son and a father
I wouldn't say so. Men are not really fit to play any roles that are MEN ONLY these days. Except, maybe, for male organ donors.

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Maybe it's just a cultural thing (since it appears you are posting from Russia?) but your views on women seem a bit narrow and dated.
Ah, the stereotypes. You know, the internet i am using right now runs on vodka and is connected by bears.
C'mon. Don't be like that.
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