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Old 04-04-2010, 05:27 PM
 
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(keeping it brutally honest) She needs to a) lose weight b) get out more.

There are so many women complaining about being involuntarily single. If you are insecure about your body, join a gym. Men are visual creatures and most prefer fit women. If a man doesn't know you exist, there's no way to connect. At the end of the day it's a business and if one isn't properly marketing and promoting, then no one will want to buy the product.

 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:31 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Or maybe they just have higher standards...

What do you say about the ones who are hot and have a healthy social life?
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:32 PM
 
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Or maybe they just have higher standards...
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:36 PM
 
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Or maybe they just have higher standards...

What do you say about the ones who are hot and have a healthy social life?
Then it must be their personality. If you're 33 and are complaining about a lack of a love life, your standards may be too high or you're overweight or a homebody.
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:37 PM
 
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(keeping it brutally honest) She needs to a) lose weight b) get out more.

There are so many women complaining about being involuntarily single. If you are insecure about your body, join a gym. Men are visual creatures and most prefer fit women. If a man doesn't know you exist, there's no way to connect. At the end of the day it's a business and if one isn't properly marketing and promoting, then no one will want to buy the product.
I don't think it's that.

When a woman says she wants a man but can't find one, suggest to her that she spend some time at the local homeless shelter because she can probably meet a man there, find one to bring home.

She will strongly object because it turns out that it's not about simply having a man. She wants one that is employed and usually a certain kind of employment. She wants one that dresses quite nice, showers often. She wants one who doesn't drink much or smoke and doesn't have a drug problem, no mental health issues, he even has to have his own home. And the list goes on.
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Do you just enjoy being beat up on this forum?
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:40 PM
 
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Plus....there are plenty of women who do need to lose weight but have NO problem landing a man. There are holes in your logic NYchi
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:42 PM
 
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Do you just enjoy being beat up on this forum?
Yes I do...forum posters' opinions don't effect me. lol
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:43 PM
 
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Plus....there are plenty of women who do need to lose weight but have NO problem landing a man. There are holes in your logic NYchi
Good for those women, but I'm referring to women who are single and on the desperate side. I'm just trying to be helpful because this is a pattern that I observe in "lonely" women.
 
Old 04-04-2010, 05:45 PM
 
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Good for those women, but I'm referring to women who are single and on the desperate side. I'm just trying to be helpful because this is a pattern that I observe in "lonely" women.
I don't think anyone would find this thread helpful.
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