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I think you are decieving yourself about "love".It's a BS concept. It can only really exist between parent and child. The "love" you are referring to is just a temporary feeling, that usually goes away. Recall that the vast majority of relationships fail. Most first dates don't proceed to second dates, the few second dates don't always lead to a third, then if a "relationship" is formed, the vast majority of those eventually fail, and even if it makes it so far as to marriage, we have a 50% divorce rate, and do you think ALL of the 50% that do not divorce are happily married?
A happy, loving relationship is the TINY TINY minority of relationships out there. You're basically limiting losing your virginity to finding the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The statistics show that love is BS.
And what's to say that if you find a "loving relationship" and you have sex, and 5 minutes later she changes her mind and likes Kyle the lacrosse player? Women are quite fickle. One minute they are crazy about you, the next you are dead to them.
I think you are decieving yourself about "love".It's a BS concept. It can only really exist between parent and child. The "love" you are referring to is just a temporary feeling, that usually goes away. Recall that the vast majority of relationships fail. Most first dates don't proceed to second dates, the few second dates don't always lead to a third, then if a "relationship" is formed, the vast majority of those eventually fail, and even if it makes it so far as to marriage, we have a 50% divorce rate, and do you think ALL of the 50% that do not divorce are happily married?
A happy, loving relationship is the TINY TINY minority of relationships out there. You're basically limiting losing your virginity to finding the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The statistics show that love is BS.
And what's to say that if you find a "loving relationship" and you have sex, and 5 minutes later she changes her mind and likes Kyle the lacrosse player? Women are quite fickle. One minute they are crazy about you, the next you are dead to them.
I'm not interested in having sex with a woman I just met. I need to at least be falling in love with her. There are bad women out there, but that does not make a majority of them bad.
Because his success rate with them is so low - but he still wonders why.
Maybe if NY101 gets a criminal record, marries a p orn star, gets tons of tattoos, and dresses like a nazi, he might find a woman who would love him like Jesse James did.
Maybe if NY101 gets a criminal record, marries a p orn star, gets tons of tattoos, and dresses like a nazi, he might find a woman who would love him like Jesse James did.
Your obsession with Jesse James, porno stars, Hitler and "death row inmates" coupled with your blatant misogyny and whininess is most peculiar. Hardly the attributes of someone who should be giving relationship advice. I can't imagine you're a lawyer of any great substance but maybe you're making this sort of suggestion to NY101 hoping he'll comply so you can feed off him in the courtroom at some later date. Now THAT would be a good attention-getter and you do seem to thrive on that.
Your obsession with Jesse James, porno stars, Hitler and "death row inmates" coupled with your blatant misogyny and whininess is most peculiar. Hardly the attributes of someone who should be giving relationship advice. I can't imagine you're a lawyer of any great substance but maybe you're making this sort of suggestion to NY101 hoping he'll comply so you can feed off him in the courtroom at some later date. Now THAT would be a good attention-getter and you do seem to thrive on that.
Thanks, your personal attacks contribute so much to the discussion.
Good luck, NY101! You've been given a mixture of good, bad and silly advice in response to your question but hopefully you can sift through them and come up with some ideas to ponder over. A good sense of humor helps in all situations. Cheers!
PS: One of the best relationships I ever had resulted from deflowering a male virgin. To say he learned very fast is an understatement!
If you're not willing to go to a prostitute to get some experience, you shouldn't even be trying. If you ever find the 'loving relationship' you want, you'll regret even wishing it after the imaginary 'love' comes to an end and the rows start, then there's the money issues and all that stuff. Women are expensive things to keep, they demand everything but can never give anything in return.
You'll miss the old days when you didn't have to ask for anyone's opinion for anything. And I certainly agree that when the couple breaks up, women start with insults about the guy's sexual drive, they always do that.
So please, stay quiet, find a hobby, go travelling but don't have a serious relationship with a woman. You'll so much regret that.
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