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It's because most of you that call yourselves "nice guys" do so because you don't have any particular distinguishing personality traits. Frankly, you're boring. You have beta personalities, or you're too clingy, or you're pushovers, or you are not confident, or you don't like yourself, or you are too desperate.
A lot women find that unattractive or uninteresting. At best, you're "friend" material. You aren't assertive or confident enough to move into that boyfriend role. You look with envy upon the men who have the personality and confidence you do not, and you cattily call them "bad boys" and try to convince the women around you that those men terrible creatures and not to be trusted, hoping against hope that you'll get some pity sex from her when a breakup happens.
Here's a hint for all of you "good guys". We won't like you until you like yourself. If you can't do that, then we are going to choose the men that do. They are way more fun, way more interesting, and way more sexy than a meek, self-conscious guy who has the personality of a soap dish.
It's because most of you that call yourselves "nice guys" do so because you don't have any particular distinguishing personality traits. Frankly, you're boring. You have beta personalities, or you're too clingy, or you're pushovers, or you are not confident, or you don't like yourself, or you are too desperate.
A lot women find that unattractive or uninteresting. At best, you're "friend" material. You aren't assertive or confident enough to move into that boyfriend role. You look with envy upon the men who have the personality and confidence you do not, and you cattily call them "bad boys" and try to convince the women around you that those men terrible creatures and not to be trusted, hoping against hope that you'll get some pity sex from her when a breakup happens.
Here's a hint for all of you "good guys". We won't like you until you like yourself. If you can't do that, then we are going to choose the men that do. They are way more fun, way more interesting, and way more sexy than a meek, self-conscious guy who has the personality of a soap dish.
It's because most of you that call yourselves "nice guys" do so because you don't have any particular distinguishing personality traits. Frankly, you're boring. You have beta personalities, or you're too clingy, or you're pushovers, or you are not confident, or you don't like yourself, or you are too desperate.
A lot women find that unattractive or uninteresting. At best, you're "friend" material. You aren't assertive or confident enough to move into that boyfriend role. You look with envy upon the men who have the personality and confidence you do not, and you cattily call them "bad boys" and try to convince the women around you that those men terrible creatures and not to be trusted, hoping against hope that you'll get some pity sex from her when a breakup happens.
Here's a hint for all of you "good guys". We won't like you until you like yourself. If you can't do that, then we are going to choose the men that do. They are way more fun, way more interesting, and way more sexy than a meek, self-conscious guy who has the personality of a soap dish.
Plenty of "nice guys" have great personalities and like themselves just fine
I never had to develop that large ego to pick up girls, because I was so good looking, athletic and smart...girls just came crawling to me.
It's so much easier that way too.
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