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My belief is that, in the end, you're always found out. Best to be upfront about it. No, you don't have to blab on the first couple of dates, but you better do it if things are getting serious.
What's more, everybody over the age of 25 has a past. Some just happen to be more interesting than others.
I am a firm believer that the past is the past - but at the same time, I think that it is really good to be completely open about one's past (if the relationship is getting serious). Otherwise, there can be some real blindsides later on - and best to know how people will react (and if they will accept you "warts and all") sooner rather than later. JMHO.
What would you do if you found out that your partner.....was previously in the adult entertainment business? Does it matter what the occupation was?
Well, first of all, before any woman could be lucky enough to be my partner, she'd go through a series of questions over the course of our initial dating that will allow me to get to know her and have an idea of her experiences in life and such. Of course people can (and SHOULD) change, but for me, finding out about someone's past relationships, jobs, life experiences will help me determine if its someone I want to have in MY life, so I doubt that finding out something like this will happen later in the relationship.
Now, for the sake of your question, if in fact I did find out about this later in our relationship, I would end it right away. The trust bond would be broken and it would cause me to question pretty much everything else about her and who she is and what she has done in her life. Cant be in a relationship with someone like that.
I think a person has done an extremely poor job in really getting to know a person if after a few years in a relationship together they find out that the person was a porn actress.
A man with a history of promiscuity is undesirable to me. I don't care if it was to pay for college or not. It doesn't matter if they told me early on in the relationship or after I've developed feelings for them, I would most likely end the relationship. Waiting to tell me something like that, especially if they know my preference, is just as manipulative as not telling me at all.
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