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Old 04-15-2010, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Russian Federation
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If you guys really want a ball-breaker I can play! I don't like being that way though!
Sure. Jump on board
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Old 04-15-2010, 07:46 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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At least you a LEVOW make me laugh! I'm crying sometimes!LMAO.............
Oh he just likes to sir things up on the forum.
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Old 04-15-2010, 07:49 PM
 
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You have no idea what the forums for or why you posted for advice ....and you want me to believe your clueless....you figure it out, good luck.
I know why I post - for advice. I am not clueless by any means, nor am I trying to make you believe I am. People on here can be downright nasty, but believe it or not I actually appreciate the opposing opinions sometimes.

As I said, I was just always under the impression that this kind of was a support forum and so I became a little confused - in all honesty I always thought all forums were support/advice forums.

Anyway..!
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Old 04-15-2010, 07:53 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Here we go....
-Dragging up a chair to watch the melee-
LOL Make yourself some popcorn.
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Old 04-15-2010, 07:54 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Advice is given based on the poster's story. We aren't in a position to know both sides of the story so we take them to actually be honest about what they are telling us. We've had our share of trolls who just want to stir up shyt.

I have actually told people on here they deserve better...as a matter of fact it was the one poster you mentioned. I told her hopefully she finds someone who treats her as she deserves and I meant it. If she's a b*tch and caused her own grief, that's her deal. She came here for support and opinions and I gave mine based on her side.

It's no different than if a friend of mine came up (or a stranger for that matter), I take them at their word until I have reason to believe otherwise.

No need be cynical until I find holes in their story.Sorry it kills you to hear people say that but I will continue offer it to applicable posters. But hey, I'll try to kill you softly.
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Old 04-15-2010, 07:58 PM
 
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If she's a b*tch and caused her own grief, that's her deal. She came here for support and opinions and I gave mine based on her side.

Sorry it kills you to hear people say that but I will continue offer it to applicable posters. But hey, I'll try to kill you softly.
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Old 04-15-2010, 08:02 PM
 
Location: southern california
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good OP
a lil lengthy but valid.
guy view, she had it coming.
girl view, its all his fault, no matter what.
the truth probably lies in the middle.
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Old 04-15-2010, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Russian Federation
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we take them to actually be honest about what they are telling us
Imagine me unshaved with a cane in my hand, looking you straight in the eye, saying as meaningfully as i can: "Everybody lies"


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But hey, I'll try to kill you softly.
That actually sounds kinda nice.
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Old 04-15-2010, 08:09 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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"You deserve better" is saying don't settle, it's cliche.
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Old 04-15-2010, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You've posted several threads..your not serious....
haha
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