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Unread 11-22-2010, 05:58 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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But those women are sleeping with men who have had other partners? Besides, those diseases-warts and herpes-everyone has a little bit of both of them when they are born. Those diseases are so common it is not even funny. What sucks is when you get a strain that is violent but most strains of herpes and warts are not too bad.
Smooooooth. "Don't worry, these aren't too bad. Everybody is born with a little bit of herpes anyway." I bet that line works on all the ladies.

 
Unread 11-22-2010, 06:39 AM
 
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But those women are sleeping with men who have had other partners? Besides, those diseases-warts and herpes-everyone has a little bit of both of them when they are born. Those diseases are so common it is not even funny. What sucks is when you get a strain that is violent but most strains of herpes and warts are not too bad.
i grew up in a town of less than 900 people, so i knew most of them my age +/-5 years. the cultural changes have resulted in a return to harems, this is why many older generations give out crap relationship advice to the younger crowd.

if your over 30, you didn't have the same social networking growing up as us so you don't understand. most guys hardly ever get laid but there is a handful that almost any of the women will jump in the sack with (like 1 in 15, if that). most don't use condoms very often, so i don't see a real difference between them and a prostitute whose slept with many more men as a risk factor.


i've never used one (don't trust CL, don't want a street walker) but when i go to Las Vegas i wiill make it my duty.
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 09:10 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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I generally agree with you on that; because some women wouldn't give me the time of day, even when I had a nice car; when I was younger. Now that I am a bit older, and presumably less energetic, women seem to have changed their minds; even if some of it can be attributed to modern times.
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 09:17 AM
 
Location: ATL
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I dont see the problem. Men will always pay for sex even when married. Let a married man forget to pay the light bill or mortgage, he will not get any sex from his wife.

If you go out on a date men are still paying so they might as well pay for the sex upfront. Going to those sites guys dont have to worry about stalkers, women slashing their tires, V-day/Bday presents, etc.
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 09:18 AM
 
Location: ATL
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I dont see why its a problem if men pay for sex but its ok for women to give up sex for money
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 09:25 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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What if a guy considers buying sex between girlfriends to be the equivalent to having ginger between courses? Ostensibly, to cleanse the palate. From one perspective, it could mean less emotional baggage on the part of the guy, with his next relationship.

What benefits do women get if a guy doesn't buy sex, merely for the sake of having sex?
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 09:32 AM
 
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Smooooooth. "Don't worry, these aren't too bad. Everybody is born with a little bit of herpes anyway." I bet that line works on all the ladies.
Lol. You are aware that every human born comes out of the woman's you know what?? Basically warts and herpes are transmitted that way as well as sex. You just need skin contact and the baby has a lot of contact with the mother. Its not always a guarantee like sex with a condom does not always mean you are safe from warts and herpes. But there is a chance of getting it. So yeah.

On topic: sex with a pro is different than with what women do with the bad boy. Most johns know they are not in love with the hooker and that the hooker has no feeling for them. Unlike the girl with the bad boy who is always telling them how much they love and are in love, etc. You do not experience love with a hooker its just sex and both participates know that. But with the other thing yeah there may be love on one side and that is something men should never forget. Never forget she has known love and that she loved a total scumbag. So remember if you love her you should treat her worse than what you treated the prostitute but kinder than the scumbag she was in love with.
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 09:39 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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What if many guys have been "brainwashed" into thinking Capitalism will solve all of our problems, if only we had sufficient Capital. The biblical Ruth is one example of this line of reasoning. (A moral tale) pun intended.
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 10:40 AM
 
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Lol. You are aware that every human born comes out of the woman's you know what?? Basically warts and herpes are transmitted that way as well as sex. You just need skin contact and the baby has a lot of contact with the mother. Its not always a guarantee like sex with a condom does not always mean you are safe from warts and herpes. But there is a chance of getting it. So yeah.

There is some merit to this, as Herpes is on the lips as well, including genital herpes. You could never know you have it or what strain, unless you get specific test often. It's not like anyone (that i know at least) is asking for test before kissing someone. But it's a numbers game too. There are many strains of HPV and I don't want to go out collecting them just because it is difficult to avoid catching.
 
Unread 11-22-2010, 11:00 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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So remember if you love her you should treat her worse than what you treated the prostitute but kinder than the scumbag she was in love with.
I think it is easier for us guys, if it were more of a custom for women to simply make sure they are doing the guy(s) she wants a relationship with the most.

How many guys would be confused about where they stand, if a woman is doing them more than the other ones, while claiming she wants a relationship?

Conversely, why should guys fall for that female trick, if they are getting laid the least, while the woman is claiming she wants a relationship? Do we need to start asking women for k.i.s.s.es?
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