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It's not that most women expect players to be pure, the strong sexual attraction makes her not care if he is pure or not. She wants to believe he is pure because the attraction is so pure
Women who continually throw caution to the wind and give in to "chemistry" always live to regret it. They learn the hard way.
But why would you prefer it if a man "kept that nugget to himself?"
Then you don't have any information on which to make that choice.
It is the same as my view on drugs: legalize, but I don't want you in my life if you participate.
I fully well understand that some people can do coke every other weekend without it affecting their life, and then they may grow bored with it and move on. However I am human and as such do judge people with how they conduct themselves in their personal life (and I understand that they will do the same to me). If a guy tells me that last year he did coke every other weekend, I will judge him for it and not want him in my life, even if there were no adverse effects whatsoever. He should keep that nugget to himself, and allow me to judge him based upon the person he is today.
My opinion regarding prostitution falls under the same category, is my own opinion, and isn't subject to debate.
It is the same as my view on drugs: legalize, but I don't want you in my life if you participate.
I fully well understand that some people can do coke every other weekend without it affecting their life, and then they may grow bored with it and move on. However I am human and as such do judge people with how they conduct themselves in their personal life (and I understand that they will do the same to me). If a guy tells me that last year he did coke every other weekend, I will judge him for it and not want him in my life, even if there were no adverse effects whatsoever. He should keep that nugget to himself, and allow me to judge him based upon the person he is today.
My opinion regarding prostitution falls under the same category, is my own opinion, and isn't subject to debate.
TY for expressing yourself clearly this time! It makes sense!
That's too funny! If you don't want "your own opinion" subject to debate, then don't post it on here and keep it to yourself. We'll be fine without it. Everything posted on a public messageboard is "subject to debate." Go instruct the moderators which posts of yours "people are not allowed to debate" and we will see how far that gets you.
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That's too funny! If you don't want "your own opinion" subject to debate, then don't post it on here and keep it to yourself. We'll be fine without it. Everything posted on a public messageboard is "subject to debate."
Wow I guess I have to state the obvious to you:
I can post my opinions as I like, and you can judge them if you want, as much as you want. But that doesn't mean I have to debate it with you.
No where in the TOS am I required to debate with you or anyone else.
If a person comes along and challenges my opinion in an intelligent way I may engage in a debate with them because I find it interesting. But when I person comes along and doesn't offer anything I find worthy of engagement, I will not bother. I don't find you all that worthy, which is why I have ignored most of what you have to say. That's my prerogative, and I don't take it personally when other people feel the same way about me.
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I asked you to explain your POV further, not debate it.
So you explained your POV further. Thank you for doing so. Then after explaining it you started going on about "my point of view is not subject to debate ... blah blah blah." Who cares? It's over. End of story.
PS: Thank you for interrupting the obviously wildly fulfilling lovelife you have created for yourself in order to "engage" with me on this topic, however unworthy I might be. I am truly honored that you took time out of your joyous lovelife to spare me a scrap of your attention! All I can say is, "Carry on! Carry on!" so that the impressive lovelife you have built for yourself remains as wonderful as it is right now for all your days on this earth!
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There are different classes of prostitutes. Escorts are in the upper echelon and I agree, they are typically willingly involved in it.
You actually WILL find illegal alien women forced into prostitution in brothels in the USA that serve the same kind of ethnic group/nationality they come from. It's sad but true ... there is sexual slavery in America.
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Child Exploitation and Obscenity (CEOS): Child Prostitution - Domestic Sex Trafficking of Minors (http://www.justice.gov/criminal/ceos/prostitution.html - broken link)
Sex slavery and child prostitution is rare in America...that has nothing to do with whether prostitution should be illegal or not anyway. There are already laws in place to protect children and aliens, and there always will be. It's like the old argument about guns... well guns don't kill people, people kill people. Don't blame the gun.
People drive drunk and kill people so why not bring prohibition back and make alcohol illegal too? Why not make cigarettes illegal? If you can make sex between 2 adults illegal...you can make anything illegal.
Sex slavery and child prostitution is rare in America...that has nothing to do with whether prostitution should be illegal or not anyway.
You said that nobody is really forced into prostitution in America, and I pointed out that the average age of women when they become prostitutes is 12 to 14. How does that jive with your statement above? Do you just not believe what I posted?
The majority of prostitutes are not pretty coeds making some bucks on the side to get them through school, at which point they simply stop and go on to get married and become productive citizens. The majority of prostitutes join that profession because they are runaways or "throwaways" (kicked out and abandoned by their families) and they need money. They get themselves a pimp and drug habit and the rest is history. A 14-year-old prostitute--the average age she starts turning tricks (meaning some are younger too)--is ALL about sex slavery and child prostitution, and they are not rare at all.
You said that nobody is really forced into prostitution in America, and I pointed out that the average age of women when they become prostitutes is 12 to 14. How does that jive with your statement above? Do you just not believe what I posted?
The majority of prostitutes are not pretty coeds making some bucks on the side to get them through school, at which point they simply stop and go on to get married and become productive citizens. The majority of prostitutes join that profession because they are runaways or "throwaways" (kicked out and abandoned by their families) and they need money. They get themselves a pimp and drug habit and the rest is history. A 14-year-old prostitute--the average age she starts turning tricks (meaning some are younger too)--is ALL about sex slavery and child prostitution, and they are not rare at all.
Sex slavery and child prostitution is rare in America...that has nothing to do with whether prostitution should be illegal or not anyway. There are already laws in place to protect children and aliens, and there always will be. It's like the old argument about guns... well guns don't kill people, people kill people. Don't blame the gun.
People drive drunk and kill people so why not bring prohibition back and make alcohol illegal too? Why not make cigarettes illegal? If you can make sex between 2 adults illegal...you can make anything illegal.
I disagree. Sex slavery and child prostitution are very much alive and well.
I have yet to meet an 11 or 12 year old girl who has decided to be a prostitute. Some of these young girls are prostituted out by their own families.
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