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Old 04-19-2010, 01:16 AM
 
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Dating is the dishonest form of prostitution.

 
Old 04-19-2010, 04:45 AM
 
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you'd be surprised at the guys who do visit escorts.

i have nothing against it, and to me it's not morally wrong. i think as i get older, concepts of right and wrong to me seem fairly subjective. everything in this life of ours is.
 
Old 04-19-2010, 04:47 AM
 
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What do you guys think of guys like these who use escorts and the "services" they provide

Do you see these men as desperate, losers, sex addicts, what?

This got me thinking because one of my father's friends uses escorts quite frequently and prefers to stay a bachelor (at the age of 57 )

what do u guys think of men like these?
this is his own business, n'est ce pas?

perhaps he doesn't want a relationship. or still has "the urges" and wants to satisfy them.
 
Old 04-19-2010, 05:21 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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An escort service is prostitution, they've been around forever. Judging someone for the use of the services isn't worth my thought.
 
Old 04-19-2010, 08:38 AM
 
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i thought about this, when i was in amsterdam's red light district last weekend, with beautiful women tapping on the window begging me to have sex with them.

would i do it? is it immoral? is it awkward?

in the end i was able to restrain myself. the biggest obstacle that i was unable to overcome was the other creepy-looking dudes slinking through the shadows, knowing that these were "regular clients". even in a regulated, legal environment, there was still something really unclean and unhygenic about it all. i can't imagine what sort of diseases you'd find on craigslist in the US.

furthermore, it is a business deal, so i think you forego many of the small pleasures of physical intimacy.
 
Old 04-19-2010, 10:07 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Dating is the dishonest form of prostitution.
LMAO...you said it!! At least they're getting paid for it!!!
 
Old 04-19-2010, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Honestly, if I found out a guy I'd been dating had used escorts or prostitutes in the past, it would skeeve me out quite a bit.
 
Old 04-19-2010, 10:13 AM
 
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Honestly, if I found out a guy I'd been dating had used escorts or prostitutes in the past, it would skeeve me out quite a bit.
You took the words right out of my mouth.
 
Old 04-19-2010, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Del Rio, TN
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A buddy of mine and I were talking a while back, we were debating the merits of renting a boat or buying one. He related words to live by, that he got as advice from a well-off friend.

If it floats, flys or f***s, rent it, it's cheaper in the long run.
 
Old 04-19-2010, 12:35 PM
 
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It doesn't bother me as long as they decide not to return to the dating world. Not to upset anyone but I don't want to be with a guy who has sex with an escort/prostitute. I
Unless she is a streetwalker or some cheap hooker most prostitutes have a vested interest in maintaining their sexual health and are fastidiously tested for diseases. A decent prostitute is probably cleaner than your average 'nice girl'.
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