Sex - Family Member in Danger? (conversation, interested, people, scared)

[Yzette]

Originally Posted by I_Love_LI_but

Since he is sending photos around to his friends, I believe that sooner or later his wife is going to be confronted with the evidence.

Simplest, if harshest, way to get the ball rolling would be for the OP to get her hands on a few of those photos and see that the wife gets them. If the wife is at home while he works and she's the one who gets the mail, the OP can mail them to her anonymously. If the wife works, the OP can send them to her office, again anonymously.

I had a friend whose boyfriend was messing around while stationed overseas, and she received photos like that in the mail while he was away. No return address. Just photos in an envelope with a typed address.

[virgode]

I don't think the husband or the wife have the presense of mind, but if the OP could do what you've suggested, that drops it in her SIL's lap if she doesn't know, a that point, OP will have done everything she can, unless she knows the kids are aware and their mother isn't shielding them from his activities. At that point the OP has enough to take to CPServiices, but I doubt she has the backbone to do anything but protect her brother.

Originally Posted by Avienne

Simplest, if harshest, way to get the ball rolling would be for the OP to get her hands on a few of those photos and see that the wife gets them. If the wife is at home while he works and she's the one who gets the mail, the OP can mail them to her anonymously. If the wife works, the OP can send them to her office, again anonymously.

I had a friend whose boyfriend was messing around while stationed overseas, and she received photos like that in the mail while he was away. No return address. Just photos in an envelope with a typed address.

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by virgode

Part of the excitement for him is doing this right under everyones nose and getting away with it, eventually he will get caught, it doesnt guarantee his wife will walk. The family dynamic seems to be sick.

The brother lives out his fantasy in the home and the OP seems to be attracted to these type of men. It makes me wonder about their childhood home life.

Aside from the health factor, I can't help but think the kids aren't exactly clueless. Kids aren't dummies, there smart enough to pick up on these things.

Now here is a post that finally makes sense.

[STT Resident]

Might I kindly suggest that anybody contributing to this thread from hereon in read the whole thread before jumping in?

The same arguments are being re-hashed over and over again with very little variation. Since the OP posted her "question" she's only responded once since then. She is SO concerned not. Concerned with herself, yes. A whole 'nother issue.

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by Onglet39

Now here is a post that finally makes sense.

I'm confused by your response.

[max's mama]

Originally Posted by Onglet39

Now here is a post that finally makes sense.

Finally you have admitted that your posts didn't make any.

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by STT Resident

I'm confused by your response.

I'm not surprised.

His (or her) post directly addressed what the OP asked rather than addressing what he or she personally feels is relevant.

[max's mama]

Originally Posted by STT Resident

Might I kindly suggest that anybody contributing to this thread from hereon in read the whole thread before jumping in?

The same arguments are being re-hashed over and over again with very little variation. Since the OP posted her "question" she's only responded once since then. She is SO concerned not. Concerned with herself, yes. A whole 'nother issue.

Although you seem to always pride yourself with reading the whole thread, I actually DID read the whole thread this time around.
Even if OP never comes back, maybe someone else reading right now who is in the similar situation and even if she comes back a month from now, she may still find this helpful.

[virgode]

Originally Posted by Onglet39

I'm not surprised.

His (or her) post directly addressed what the OP asked rather than addressing what he or she personally feels is relevant.

I appreciate your comment on the post, I think the agenda here for most folks who've responded are the kids, we all have a different way of expressing our opinions.

[max's mama]

Originally Posted by virgode

I appreciate your comment on the post, I think the agenda here for most folks who've responded are the kids, we all have a different way of expressing our opinions.

Exactly. I'm not sure what "agenda" Onglet implies we have. I'm very concerned for the kids and the wife. That's my agenda.