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A few weeks ago I was scheduled to travel to my States regional Govt office to meet w/ a Career Counselor to discuss funds that I was now entitled to to pay for a couple more Degree's and retraining.
While sitting in the waiting area I heard my named called and when I looked up there was a very attractive Puerto Rican woman standing there w/ a smile waiting to help me out. Each clients appt was set to last around 20 mins no more than 30min, our initial meeting went for an hour, we talked and laughed about almost everything other than what I was there to talk about.
When she realized how long we'd overran she said I had to get into contact w/ her in 2weeks and I had a handful of things I needed to have done, she said I could just call in that way I could avoid the 2hr one way drive to her office, but seeing as how well it went I chose to drive back out to see her again.
Well I met w/ her again a few days ago, and our meeting went again well over an hour almost 1.5hrs, during the meet we again talked more about each other, her family, she asked if I was single, if I had kids, told me she was unable to have children (due to medical issue), and so forth. At one point after I made a comment about when I was younger I used to keep a list of my "Sexual Partners" cause if I could no longer remember who'd I'd been w/ then it was time to quit, she quipped that "Well I think most good looking people have kept a list at sometime or another"!
In my mind this was the go ahead that she was indeed interested. She told me she was also single, that she was having difficulty finding a good man as she was into white men, and most men in NC either assumed she was into other ethnic types, or she was African American herself.
How should I proceed? Is it apparent that she's into me? I have to be cautious cause our relationship is that of Counselor & client and it's a professional interaction.
Need help quick as I need to pooh or get off the pot on this one!
I don't know if she is interested, but she certainly seems open to finding out. Tell her you need a partner for bowling, walking, whatever... Ask her if she is available on the weekend. This way, it won't actually be a date (yuck), but an outing. Then pick her mind if she does go.
I think she is interested. Ask her out somewhere, she has already indicated she is interested in you from what i have read..
Yeah I got the very same vibe, just worried that she will have work issues as she is contracted to gain me an assignment, but has already made mention that she will most likely have to pass my file on to someone else, that's when I woke up and everything else began to be more clear.
She may just want to separate her work and personal life. Give her a bit of time to come around, she may be thinking the same as you..
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