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Old 04-26-2010, 02:18 PM
 
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I personally let a man know when I am interested. I have methods, but there can be no doubt about my intentions. And if u have to wonder I probably have none so, but if the guy is interested enough he could possibly change my mind.
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Old 04-26-2010, 02:29 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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The only free food I get from women are my mom, aunt, and sister. They're excluded...

I got a serious problem if I can't decipher the female body language.
If it makes you feel any better, you're not the only one. There have been many missed opportunities which I realized much later, were signs of interest. Fortunately for me, my wife made it clear enough that even I didn't miss the signs.
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Old 04-26-2010, 02:45 PM
 
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An obvious sign that she likes you is:

1. She doesn't ignore you
2. She doesn't tell you that she doesn't like you
3. She's not spraying you with mace
4. She's talking to you
5. She's laughing at your jokes
6. She takes an interest in what you have to say
7. She doesn't throw her drink your face
8. She says yes when you ask her out
9. She doesn't tell you to go away when you talk to her
10. She says she likes you
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Old 04-26-2010, 02:55 PM
 
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An obvious sign that she likes you is:


3. She's not spraying you with mace
I disagree, I always took this as major sign of affection. Certainly it was less painful than some perfumes that ladies use. And it is much easier than deciphering the No Contact order that some desperate for my attention women try out.
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:18 PM
 
Location: lala land
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When a women is interested they want to know more about you. They ask you questions about yourself, your life, your plans (if any) for the future. They are basically trying to see if you two are compatible. They also make reasons to see you more often, or keep in contact with you.

The biggest give a way though, is body language. If a girl really likes you, when you are with her, you are the center of her world. If she is constantly looking away, seems uninterested when you talk, seems distracted, then she is probably not really thinking about you. But if she is all smiles, can't take her eyes off of you, seems excited and nervous around you - then those are all tell tale signs.
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Give her the car door test.

Sonny: Alright, listen to me. You pull up right where she lives, right? Before you get outta the car, you lock both doors. Then, get outta the car, you walk over to her. You bring her over to the car. Dig out the key, put it in the lock and open the door for her. Then you let her get in. Then you close the door. Then you walk around the back of the car and look through the rear window. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so that you can get in: dump her.

Calogero 'C' Anello: Just like that?

Sonny: Listen to me, kid. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so that you can get in, that means she's a selfish broad and all you're seeing is the tip of the iceberg. You dump her and you dump her fast.
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Of course, now that most car locks are automatic, that doesn't work so well anymore.
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:35 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Give her the car door test.

Sonny: Alright, listen to me. You pull up right where she lives, right? Before you get outta the car, you lock both doors. Then, get outta the car, you walk over to her. You bring her over to the car. Dig out the key, put it in the lock and open the door for her. Then you let her get in. Then you close the door. Then you walk around the back of the car and look through the rear window. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so that you can get in: dump her.

Calogero 'C' Anello: Just like that?

Sonny: Listen to me, kid. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so that you can get in, that means she's a selfish broad and all you're seeing is the tip of the iceberg. You dump her and you dump her fast.
Hmmm I don't know about this test. What if she doesn't realize your door is locked? Or what if she's so nervous about the date she's a little scatter brained?
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Hmmm I don't know about this test. What if she doesn't realize your door is locked? Or what if she's so nervous about the date she's a little scatter brained?
That was actually a line from a movie...A Bronx Tale.
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:49 PM
 
Location: lala land
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That was actually a line from a movie...A Bronx Tale.
Ok ok .

I'm not a big fan of tests, but I think a test that is pretty accurate is the "waiter/waitress" test. Also the "mom" test is another biggie.
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