Found out Boyfriend posted an ad on online Sex Sites (marriage, loyalty)

[FrmlyBklyn]

Originally Posted by AllAboutEve

Even if the file is erased it still leaves a mark. What most people don't know is that your comp is continuously taking note of your activity. So let's say you check your email. You don't save the password, you erase the history, you clear the cache, etc. But you have not erased the picture that was taken of your screen when your computer was doing inventory. That picture can be retrieved. Someone with computer savy, can pull up what you were looking at on your screen, and read the email you read, without ever having to figure out your email password.

Think of this picture as a "ghost" if you will. The file can be erased, but the "ghost" file cannot.

I was not wrong. It is close to impossible to erase anything completely, but it can be done if you have the knowledge. Judging from AC's past claims of being an expert on things, I suspect he wouldn't know how to do it.

I'm from the Home Depot, my 10lb sledge will make the computer give up the "ghost".

[Iamthere]

Originally Posted by FrmlyBklyn

I'm from the Home Depot, my 10lb sledge will make the computer give up the "ghost".

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!

[onegreatnurse]

Originally Posted by Iamthere

answer his on line ad with an alias....see what the conversation is and where it goes.....then after about a month, tell him the truth about who he has been talking to ......but i`m sorry to say that the relationship is over......if it is a real sex site

Funny, I was gonna say the same thing, but dump him first and let him think it doesn't matter because he's found someone to play with on a sex site instead of you anyway. String him along but good, too. Give him a fake pic, talk dirty in every way you can think of, make him think he's gonna get it on but good with you and maybe a few other friends of yours. You can make a game of it, invite some friends to get in on it and laugh at him together. Then drop a bomb after you get him thinking he's gonna get some. You should have him show up to meet you and be there w/some friends, laughing.

[max's mama]

Hell no, OP, I wouldn't stand for it for a second. I would confront him and then dump his ass.

[Yzette]

Originally Posted by I_Love_LI_but

If you're lucky they may call you semi-crazy sounding and overly emotional!

PS: OP, run for the hills. I can imagine what kind of doctor he is going to make ... one who uses his position in life to get into various "positions" with all kinds of women. You're not even engaged yet and he's starting this nonsense. Run, run, run! If you absolutely MUST work it out with him and marry him then get the kind of pre-nup Mrs. Jean Strahan had.

Awww, maybe he just wants to practice his love with women all across this country.

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[topmop2010]

I asked him to be honest and tell me he if he has cheated and he keeps saying no...Maybe b/c he never met up with the women he will not view this as cheating?? I did noticed after the two email exchanges between him and the women (3 day period), it just stopped and he never upgraded to a paid membership. So, maybe he realizes what he was doing and stopped???? I guess I am trying very hard to forgive him...

[chanceryan]

Originally Posted by topmop2010

Hi,

I just found out that my boyfriends of 3years, just signed up with 3 online sex sites. His online ad states that he's looking for no strings attached hook ups. I don't know if he has actually met up with these women but he has emailed back and forth with at least 2 women. How do i confront him without letting him know I checked his email (I know i'm wrong)??? This is killing me inside.

Thanks!

Update: He signed up but never paid for the membership..if this matters. I want him to understand how he has hurt me but when he realizes I checked his emails, i'm sure he will turn it around

A popular statement made famous by Private Investigators when hired by spouses who think their significant other is having an affair, "Well if you are hiring me then you already have all the evidence you need, so why drag it out"!

Well said. Your right he will turn it around on u but end result is the relationship appears to be well over!

[Yzette]

Originally Posted by LaoTzuMindFu

My unbiased opinion is this:

1. First you should ask yourself why you think your bf wants to cheat, then ask yourself what are YOU doing wrong in the bedroom that is NOT satisfying him and forcing him to seek sex elsewhere.

Please read through the thread. If we all had to go through the torture of learning what an A-1 jackarse the boyfriend is, so should you.

[chanceryan]

Originally Posted by topmop2010

I asked him to be honest and tell me he if he has cheated and he keeps saying no...Maybe b/c he never met up with the women he will not view this as cheating?? I did noticed after the two email exchanges between him and the women (3 day period), it just stopped and he never upgraded to a paid membership. So, maybe he realizes what he was doing and stopped???? I guess I am trying very hard to forgive him...

Nope your making excuses for him! You both did things that violated the others trust, trust once lost can't be regained. So your good byes and move on, or u will turn around it will have been 3 more yr's and u will have found out he'd been cheating on u the whole time.

When someone is stupid enough to get caught, they not really trying to hide it!

[LaoTzuMindFu]

Originally Posted by Avienne

Please read through the thread. If we all had to go through the torture of learning what an A-1 jackarse the boyfriend is, so should you.

Please read through my entire post. I read hers, and I responded with real questions.

If her guy would have started a thread about "Im thinking of cheating on my girlfriend because I a unhappy with her" I would have said the same thing to him.