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Old 04-26-2010, 03:54 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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^^ see what I was talking about!
Yeah, I'll stop now. I gained this expertise with a lifetime spent in playing a double life with my employers
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:57 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Yeah, I'll stop now. I gained this expertise with a lifetime spent in playing a double life with my employers
LOL...you know how impressionable some people are around here! Some knowledge you have to keep to yourself...it could be dangerous in the wrong hands!!
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:58 PM
 
Location: Wichita, KS
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Currently, I'm living in another state (just for the next 6months for a consultant project). But, he has stated he wants to get engaged when I return. I try to visit every three weeks. So, i know it tough but since he's in medical school, i thought he would stay busy and our love would keep us together. As i read all the post..I feel like a jackass...
You shouldn't feel like a jackass. Why did you snoop though his emails? BECAUSE YOU FELT LIKE HE WAS CHEATING! Why do police officers snoop through the personals of accused criminals? Because they have a reason to think some wrongdoing was taking place. Same logic applies here, imo. Why would you want to be engaged, let alone married, to somebody who is going to look for satisfaction from online sluts? If he can't wait for you to come back, then he is not worthy of your time. Patience is a virtue, one that I'm sure you both know about. Dump his sorry ass. Find somebody who respects you as a person and doesn't feel like he needs to resort to cyberskank.com to feel fulfillment in a relationship.

This shouldn't be about "covering your tracks" or "feeling hypocritical because I did something I wasn't supposed to do." You shouldn't care about any of that. You also shouldn't try and control his every whereabouts just so you can be assured he isn't looking at porn. You're not married yet. You have nothing to lose (including him) and everything to gain. If he doesn't respect your beliefs, then throw him and his computer to the streets.
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Old 04-26-2010, 03:58 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Between age 13 and 17 I went through biology education to pass my medical entrance test coz Dad wanted me to be one. This is hardcore. In India, you need to pass an entrance test to gain admission. When I was 17 I flipped minds and went into engineering.

An engineer is not supposed to argue with a lay person. If you would believe the FBI detective, you should. It's your right to put where your belief belongs
So when you were a teenager you took some biology classes to pass a test and that makes you an "expert on genetics"?

Yea, ok, when I was in college I took some biology classes as well but I would not call myself an expert. An expert is someone who has a PhD, has done research, and who makes their living in that field. Please stop over stating your abilities, no one is believing your claims but you.

And an engineer is not supposed to argue with a lay person? Please. You got caught lying and now you're backing up a mile a minute. I just talked to my brother and yes, your claim is correct, you can erase something from the memory permanently. But judging from your other claims (such as being a geneticist) I am highly doubtful you know how to do it.
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Old 04-26-2010, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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So when you were a teenager you took some biology classes to pass a test and that makes you an "expert on genetics"?

Yea, ok, when I was in college I took some biology classes as well but I would not call myself an expert. An expert is someone who has a PhD, has done research, and who makes their living in that field. Please stop over stating your abilities, no one is believing your claims but you.

And an engineer is not supposed to argue with a lay person? Please. You got caught lying and now you're backing up a mile a minute. I just talked to my brother and yes, your claim is correct, you can erase something from the memory permanently. But judging from your other claims (such as being a geneticist) I am highly doubtful you know how to do it.
Can you please show me where I claimed to be a genetics expert?? You may have misread it or I may have misrepresented it with a metaphor. There's a misunderstanding somewhere.

Thank God for your brother. It's understandable the entire family can't be as bright
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Old 04-26-2010, 04:05 PM
 
Location: silver springs
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Can you please show me where I claimed to be a genetics expert?? You may have misread it or I may have misrepresented it with a metaphor. There's a misunderstanding somewhere.

Thank God for your brother. It's understandable the entire family can't be as bright
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Old 04-26-2010, 04:06 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I know, if she is ever giving you the forbidden fruit, RUN, LMAO
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Old 04-26-2010, 04:08 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Can you please show me where I claimed to be a genetics expert?? You may have misread it or I may have misrepresented it. There's a misunderstanding somewhere.

Thank God for your brother. It's understandable the entire family can't be as bright
You said you were an expert on genetics and that you were embarrassed you didn't know that alcoholism was directly related to a person's genes! You were the one who made the claim, not me. I remember thinking at the time that it was odd for you to claim to be an expert and not know something that has been so widely published in medical journals.

You're embarrassed now because I caught you lying, don't try to save face by insulting me. Just stop lying. Women have good memories, better than computers in most cases.
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Old 04-26-2010, 04:09 PM
 
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HERE'S what you do:

Set up a bogus profile on one of these sites, preferably the one with the worst reputation. Make sure the profile is everything he appears to be looking for. Start chatting back and forth with him, set up a date/time to meet him.

THEN, get a male friend of yours whose voice he wouldn't recognize to call him, preferably at work. Have him tell your SO that they have information leading them to believe that he has been contacting prostitutes at a website that is a well-known front for a prostitution ring. "Didn't you in fact contact 'Lovely Lola'? She is a well-known prostitute. Don't tell me you didn't know that." Say they want him to come down to the station to make a statement.

I don't know how far you would want to take this, but it sure would be sweet revenge.

BTW, I'm just kidding and this is in no way intended to be encouraging you to ask someone to impersonate a police officer.....
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Old 04-26-2010, 04:10 PM
 
Location: silver springs
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I know, if she is ever giving you the forbidden fruit, RUN, LMAO
I would run to hills! ROLMFAO!ROLMFAO!
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