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Most of them seem to like me, but if they didn't I wouldn't care. It is obvious to them my wife adores me, if they think I'm a shyt heels, I could care less.
I'd like them to like me. My S/O should spend time with her friends, and if they don't like me I think it'll be a negative in our relationship to have them telling her that all the time.
My ex-fiance's best friend from high school didn't like me. Now keep in mind, this guy met me once and we never spoke to each other, except to say hello.
When my fiance broke up with me, he told me that his friend thought I was too controlling I was anything but controlling with my fiance, just the opposite in fact, not that his friend would know this. I also found out that his friend thought my ex should reconcile with the mother of his kids - I guess the friend felt very strongly that parents should stay together. Well, there was no way in heck my ex would ever get back together with his ex-wife, but somehow his friend's opinion still gave my ex some sort of justification for breaking up with me.
If any guy lets his friends influence who he chooses to spend the rest of his life with, it's not a good thing. I would prefer to be with someone who has a mind of his own and can make his own adult decisions.
I don't even really care what my SO thinks of me. I have enough self-worth that I don't seek the approval of others.
I don't believe it, not if you care at all about your "SO".
But maybe I'm just a weird guy. I'd like everybody to like me, and if my wife's friends didn't like me it would bother me. I'd want to know why not. I'm not worried, and it wouldn't devastate me, but it would bother me a little.
But right now, I'm mostly concerned that TKramar isn't going to like me.
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I was anything but controlling with my fiance, just the opposite in fact, not that his friend would know this. I also found out that his friend thought my ex should reconcile with the mother of his kids - I guess the friend felt very strongly that parents should stay together. Well, there was no way in heck my ex would ever get back together with his ex-wife, but somehow his friend's opinion still gave my ex some sort of justification for breaking up with me. 
I don't believe it, not if you care at all about your "SO". 
