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... and later, despite finding out you two were completely incompatible and had no future, did you continue to see her only because of her looks?
If so, how did it end?
I did it once in my early 20s. She was several years older and was hot. Bluntly speaking, we were extremely different; other than being human beings, we had almost nothing in common. It became evident in the first phone calls. But I didn't care. I wanted her and I pursued her.
It ended because she eventually realized that the considerable age gap meant there was a maturity gap, and to her defense, I was indeed immature. She was almost 30. And a reason she "let me in" was that she was needy from her ex-boyfriend being abroad. But she also realized, after a letter from him, that she still loved him. Soon after we broke up, she went back to be with him.
But not before I got what I wanted - and that's when I learned that sex without the emotions isn't as great as they say it is.
Yeah, I've dated women only because they were pretty. Hopefully I'm past that point of my life, and I'm not proud of it. It ends how you think it would end, with never talking to them again.
Yeah, I've dated women only because they were pretty. Hopefully I'm past that point of my life, and I'm not proud of it. It ends how you think it would end, with never talking to them again.
Yep. I kind of felt bad afterwards. Yes, we were both consenting adults; we did what we wanted to do and we enjoyed it, but at the same time, I eventually realized it was nothing but raw lust and no emotions at all. I wasn't proud of myself.
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I pursue women just becasue of their butt.
I've always wondered what a guy would think if he pursued a woman because he liked her butt and when they finally got together, he found she was wearing one of those padded butt pairs of underwear. oops, probably going to be deleted. off topic. sorry
Yep. I kind of felt bad afterwards. Yes, we were both consenting adults; we did what we wanted to do and we enjoyed it, but at the same time, I eventually realized it was nothing but raw lust and no emotions at all. I wasn't proud of myself.
Well I'm not a lustful person. But my experiences were more giving them chances and stuff even when they were just completely wrong for me. Like somehow just because they were pretty they would all of a sudden grow a personality.
I'm in no way, shape or form...saying that beauty has anything to do with personality either way...I'm just saying in the past, I'd made shallow decisions.
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oops, probably going to be deleted. off topic. sorry
