How a woman's sex drive changes through 30's,40's,50's... (attracted, husband)

[Djuna]

Originally Posted by professorsenator

Those of us who've been around a bit know that normal drooping and sagging and bulging will not get in the way of a great roll in the hay.

Body size, shape, and condition are so overrated with regards to great sex. It's about having a fun, adventurous, kind, and giving attitude...and that comes in all shapes and sizes.

Although I repped you for this post I had to comment.

You rock

[Iamthere]

Originally Posted by kshe95girl

You're killing me! Now I wanna know what the remark is!!!!!!

I know what it is....LOL

[LaoTzuMindFu]

Originally Posted by professorsenator

Those of us who've been around a bit know that normal drooping and sagging and bulging will not get in the way of a great roll in the hay.

Body size, shape, and condition are so overrated with regards to great sex.

As someone who has personally been around a bit myself, I respectfully disagree with you on this. From a purely physical viewpoint, sex itself is a athletic activity. And as such, a persons body size, shape, condition and physical fitness level DOES PLAY AN IMPORTANT ROLE in how good/great/bad it will be.

I mean, lets be honest, if you found a mate who you totally loved and was great in all aspects like caring, emotion, kindness, technique, etc., sex would be much better if they were physically fit than if they were not. Again, if all other factors were present, wouldnt you rather have sex with and enjoy it more with someone like Daniel Craig/Hugh Jackman/Maksim Chermokosky/Dwight Howard or would you want someone like Kevin James/Dom Delouise/Jay Leno.

[LaoTzuMindFu]

Originally Posted by wigirl920

Let's not make this a gender bashing thread. It only takes a couple of clicks to close it.

I agree. But, I dont think that this thread is spiraling into that. The OP sounds young and inexperienced in life. I just wanted to point out the reality (which everyone in the world knows) that as the womans sex drive may in fact increase with age, HIS sex drive may decrease as he may lose interest/attraction to her as her body ages and becomes flabby, saggy, wrinkly, etc. which is normal as people age.

He needs to be prepared for reality and the challenges he may have to face in his relationship with this older woman.

[Capt. Dan]

From an older mans point of view------the ladies get better in bed with age and experiance!

[Capt. Dan]

Originally Posted by kshe95girl

Please dont tell me you agree with his utterly tasteless "saggy" remark!

Here is a great example. I would take kshe95girl any day over a young girl. But then again I've always had a thang for those Missouri girls!

[dave nz]

Womens sexual peak is 35-40. Men 16-22.

[seeniorita]

Originally Posted by LaoTzuMindFu

I agree. But, I dont think that this thread is spiraling into that. The OP sounds young and inexperienced in life. I just wanted to point out the reality (which everyone in the world knows) that as the womans sex drive may in fact increase with age, HIS sex drive may decrease as he may lose interest/attraction to her as her body ages and becomes flabby, saggy, wrinkly, etc. which is normal as people age.

He needs to be prepared for reality and the challenges he may have to face in his relationship with this older woman.

I didn't realize this was a trait specifically for women......what happens to men's bodies when they age....it just falls off??

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by LaoTzuMindFu

I agree. But, I dont think that this thread is spiraling into that. The OP sounds young and inexperienced in life. I just wanted to point out the reality (which everyone in the world knows) that as the womans sex drive may in fact increase with age, HIS sex drive may decrease as he may lose interest/attraction to her as her body ages and becomes flabby, saggy, wrinkly, etc. which is normal as people age.

He needs to be prepared for reality and the challenges he may have to face in his relationship with this older woman.

Actually the truth is, married couple lose interest in doing each other because they are both turned off as they watch each other's bodies deteriorate. Look around, open your ears you will see men complain all the time that their wives don't want to have sex with them anymore, without accepting the fact that they themselves have become fat and gross so why would she want to have that sort of body flopping around on top of her? (And we know the reverse is true as well, women get fatter at a higher rate than men.) There are exceptions out there of course... but everyone is getting uglier as time marches on. Better hope you end up with someone who can overlook the inevitable flaws.

[LaoTzuMindFu]

Originally Posted by kshe95girl

Please dont tell me you agree with his utterly tasteless "saggy" remark!

Nothing "tasteless" about it. Lets not bury our heads in the sand and/or pretend not to notice the giant pink elephant in the room. Isnt it a fact that as people age, we lose muscle tone and as such, saggyness occurs? This is someone that we all face, but more often than not, its causes a problem in a (non married) relationship where the woman is the older and the guy is younger.