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Old 05-12-2010, 09:02 AM
 
Location: NYC area
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I think you misunderstood. The question was how to attract men. Not how to make them want to be sick
I think you misunderstood. The question was how to attract men. Not brainless, complex-laden little boys trapped in aging bodies.
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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The cold shoulder thing works only for men who are "thrill of the hunt" types, but lots of men are not into that. Personally, I have never had much use for women (or men, for that matter) who act like an aloof jerk. I like gals who like me, and if they give me the blow off I keep on moving. There are too many nice and decent people out there to waste your time on the a**holes of the world.
Well just call me a freak then. I see a huge difference in "mysterious" and "aloof." And I've been around the block enough times to know the difference.
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:04 AM
 
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There's things you can do to spark any possible interest that's ALREADY THERE or give him some reasons to talk to you....but you can't MAKE someone interested in you.
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:05 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I think you misunderstood. The question was how to attract men. Not how to make them want to be sick
You do realize dont you that EVERYONE else sees thru you? As was mentioned in another thread--YOU cant beat her with intelligence or logic. So you retreat to personal attacks. How pathetic!
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:08 AM
 
Location: NYC area
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The cold shoulder thing works only for men who are "thrill of the hunt" types, but lots of men are not into that. Personally, I have never had much use for women (or men, for that matter) who act like an aloof jerk. I like gals who like me, and if they give me the blow off I keep on moving. There are too many nice and decent people out there to waste your time on the a**holes of the world.
Well just call me a freak then. I see a huge difference in "mysterious" and "aloof." And I've been around the block enough times to know the difference.
I think there is a balance to be stricken here. One can be somewhat mysterious and playful without acting like an aloof jerk. It's possible to convey that you are interested without appearing overly eager.

(Thanks, Captain!)
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:12 AM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Act like you could care less about him. This will drive him crazy!


WRONG! If anything that will make me say **** off back at ya.
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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Im never attracted to women who show interest in me LIKE that way ! .. be yourself ..if u're it ..i'll come around peacocking lol ..
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:27 AM
Status: "The whole world is a stage..." (set 2 days ago)
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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There is no one method for everyone. Some guys prefer girls who are more forward and flirty, some like to do the chasing. I guess you need to know what type of animal you're hunting and choose your bait and weapon accordingly.
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:29 AM
 
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Out of curiosity, is the OP a man or a woman?
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Old 05-12-2010, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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WRONG! If anything that will make me say **** off back at ya.
So you dont know flirtation when you see it? Dont be so rigid. Sometimes the "chase" is fun!
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