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Old 10-09-2011, 12:54 PM
yog yog started this thread
 
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I was in the record store yesterday with my gf of 9 years. When we were checking out the cashier ( a cute brunette 10 years younger than me) was commenting on my choices. In this situation I wasn't expecting a conversation. We started lightly flirting. Is that normal Do girls flirt with men who are with a women? Unknown women make small talk with me all the time. Are they trying to flirt?
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Flirting? Possibly. More likely, they're just being friendly and having a conversation because their job is rather boring.
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:17 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Default This is a fun thread!!

Very Possibly flirting. You mention you were with your GF. A man being in the company of a woman attracts other women frequently. I think-And back me up here if it's true CD gals is that the sign you have a partner gives the impression you have(Hopefully.) desirable qualities in addition to good looks. (Let's assume yog is good looking.) This has happened to me on dates or out with an SO. I am decent looking. (No narcissism here)

As far as the flip side of this, it's different. How many guys are going to make small talk to another guys gal without expecting a confrontation?
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:23 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Mehhh...Me thinks thou art suffering from the nine year itch, and therefore hoping! LOL!!
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:27 PM
 
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Default Like school on a Saturday...

Sounds like wishful thinking on your part.

But despite this, you, being the classy, respectful gentleman, couldn't help yourself and flirted with her with your girlfriend standing right there.

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A man being in the company of a woman attracts other women frequently. I think-And back me up here if it's true CD gals is that the sign you have a partner gives the impression you have(Hopefully.) desirable qualities in addition to good looks.
The only kind of woman who would find a man attractive simply because he's with another woman is a skank. Just saying.
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:33 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Sounds like wishful thinking on your part.

But despite this, you, being the classy gentleman, couldn't help yourself and flirted with her with your girlfriend standing right there.


yog is being a bad boy.



The only kind of woman who would find a man attractive simply because he's with another woman is a skank. Just saying.
Perhaps if they were just looking to poach the gal's man..yes. I was referring to the situation as a whole.
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:45 PM
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Ok. Yes. I was caught off my guard and briefly flirted with a girl in front of my gf. Stupid? Definitely. But you guys answered my question. Thank you all.
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:47 PM
 
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She was just being friendly. (shrug)
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Old 10-09-2011, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Ok. Yes. I was caught off my guard and briefly flirted with a girl in front of my gf. Stupid? Definitely.
I wonder how that made your GF of 9 years feel?
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Old 10-09-2011, 02:58 PM
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She didn't say anything. But I'm sure she flirts with her male co-workers
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