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Old 05-24-2010, 12:40 PM
 
Location: California
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Whatchoo talkin 'bout, Willis?

How is he "hiding something"? Because he didn't mention it to the OP? Did I miss something? Surely we can't be expected to report everything we read to our partners. I probably read 6-8 hours a day. Since I read faster than I can talk, it would take me 16 hours to report all of it, and then I'd forget something and be accused of "hiding something". Or did I miss something?
The OP obviously is not okay with it or else she wouldn't have asked us. Her SO probably knew she wouldn't be cool with it so he never mentioned it. It's not like he isn't sharing with her what he read in an online newspaper...he's looking at something that is sexually explicit. If my boyfriend looked through that he would call me in to join or at least mention it later, but I guess that's expecting too much.
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Old 05-24-2010, 01:33 PM
 
Location: Dallas, Texas
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He is definitely fishing for something more than your relationship. It doesn't mean that he doesn't like you but he may want some adventure outside of your relationship.
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Old 05-24-2010, 02:18 PM
 
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Or maybe he's looking to see if he knows any of them.
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Old 05-24-2010, 02:23 PM
 
Location: On the west side of the Tetons
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The OP obviously is not okay with it or else she wouldn't have asked us.
She should just ask him. She said he has never given her any reason to doubt him; so, it seems rather unfair that the poor guy is being judged behind his back in the court of public opinion.

How many people read through this forum frequently, but are not looking for any relationship advice? It's just entertainment for most of us. I bet Craigslist was the same for him.
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Old 05-24-2010, 02:40 PM
 
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Hello, I recently found out that my fiancee looks at personal's "wanting sex" ads in our area on craigslist. Is this normal, is he just looking?
Can you ask him how he ended up there? I sometimes click on some the ad links on this website, just out of curiousity as some of them are really ridiculous. Maybe he was on a normal website that had CL's ad link and clicked on it just to see what's going on there.
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Old 05-24-2010, 02:46 PM
 
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How many people read through this forum frequently, but are not looking for any relationship advice? It's just entertainment for most of us. I bet Craigslist was the same for him.
I know, this could also be a possibility. I remember A friend of mine told me that if I ever need a really good laugh, I should look up CL's women seeking women page, and when I did I surely had a really good laugh! If my BF snooped and saw this, I would have been more than happy to explain.
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Old 05-24-2010, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Texas
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OK, y'all got me curious, LOL, so I checked out our local Craig's List personals. Dang! (It explains a lot about TVSG if this is where he looks for dates!)

Anyhoo, I don't understand the abbreviations. What do mw4w, m4m, m4w, t4m, etc. mean????
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Old 05-24-2010, 03:02 PM
 
Location: NYC
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OK, y'all got me curious, LOL, so I checked out our local Craig's List personals. Dang! (It explains a lot about TVSG if this is where he looks for dates!)

Anyhoo, I don't understand the abbreviations. What do mw4w, m4m, m4w, t4m, etc. mean????
mw4w - a male/female couple looking for a woman to join in

m4m - man for man

m4w - man for woman

t4m - transgendered for man
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Old 05-24-2010, 04:00 PM
 
Location: Texas
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mw4w - a male/female couple looking for a woman to join in

m4m - man for man

m4w - man for woman

t4m - transgendered for man
Ah, thanks, Onglet. Hmm, that t4m must be confusing -- how do they know if the person has transgendered into a man or a woman?

I'm suddenly very glad I don't have a Y membership! And I'm going to tell anyone I know who does to stay away from the toilet and locker room facilities!
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Old 05-24-2010, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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If he is on that secion of Craig's List - you should take him off your list!!
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