No drugs, no smoke, no drink, vegetarian, is this attractive to you? (dates, girlfriend)
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She would be phenomenally attractive to me, as I fit this description as well.
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Originally Posted by NorthsideJacksonville
I adore females that live that kind of healthy lifestyle. Any woman that deviates from the above IS NOT a good catch for me sorry.
yup, me too, count me in
(bonus points if they eat kosher too)
i have to agree, what it says to me about the person is they are healthy and they care about their health and they are better in the bedroom and are free of addictions. all very very attractive
They do no drugs, don't smoke, don't drink, a vegetarian health nut. They look 15 years younger then their birth certificate says.
Can he/she be too straight arrow? Would you be willing to accept one major fault? All faults?
Can this person be attractive to you?
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Originally Posted by genx
I don't see anything unattractive about those qualities you listed. The important thing is does this person have a winning personality? Is s/he confident and likable? Does s/he have a sense of humor and is s/he kind, considerate, and a genuinely nice person?
As long as this person wouldn't have a problem with me occasionally using drugs, smoking and eating meat, I wouldn't care in the least Different strokes for different folks.
But if they're going to throw a fit anytime I do any of the above...I'll pass.
No this would not be a deal breaker for me--this describes my husband! Except that he isn't actually a health "freak". He loves Cosmic brownies, french fries, salad drenched in ranch dressing (I call it ranch soup), ice cream...
I have found that most people do not like people who never drink and never smoke. They are uncomfortable with it for some reason. Even if you aren't in any way judging them or even talking about it. The simple fact that you aren't doing what they're doing baffles or annoys them. Who knows why.
They do no drugs, don't smoke, don't drink, a vegetarian health nut. They look 15 years younger then their birth certificate says.
Can he/she be too straight arrow? Would you be willing to accept one major fault? All faults?
Can this person be attractive to you?
So long as they are tolerant of others who do not live that way, then no problem. But often people who live very healthy lifestyles and have a long list of "don't's" usually aren't very tolerant and would probably not date anyone who does eat meat, smoke, or drink. I'm not saying never, because I know someone will jump all over me telling me how their SO is a vegetarian but loves them even though they eat meat, but often, uber-healthy folks who are militant about their lifestyle won't date people who indulge in some of life's vices.
I don't see at all why people would refuse to date someone who is vegetarian. As long as they don't tell you how to live your lifestyle, why should it matter? Ruling someone out because they live a healthy lifestyle seems pretty silly to me.
Never saw the point of using drugs, never enjoyed how drinking made me feel (just tired and sloppy), don't care to get wrinkles and cancer from cigarettes and my vegetarian diet has always worked for me. If someone will rule you out because you have these positive qualities, they are doing you a favor in the end. Who would want to be stuck with someone who wants you to live an unhealthy lifestyle?
Both my g/f and I fit all of the qualities above so I guess it's a good match
hell yeah someone to drive me home and make a salad....who could want for anything more?
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