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Old 10-26-2013, 11:02 AM
 
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The quickest way to get over a man hiding porn is to behave like an adult and not a petulant, insecure little girl so that he doesn't have to hide it in the first place.
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Old 10-26-2013, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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Exactly. And the most pathetic thing expressed in this entire thread was some insecure female whining, "I told my husband if I caught him looking at porn one more time we would divorce!"

No wonder the dude is addicted to porn when he's married to a woman that vapid, clueless, controlling and infantile!
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Old 10-26-2013, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Sounds like he may be better off without someone like that. If you don't want to look at porn, then don't look at porn. Do you tell him what music to listen to? What TV shows to watch? What to eat? What clothes to wear?

Somebody needs a child, not a husband. Somebody didn't figure out that it doesn't really matter where you get hungry as long as you eat at home.
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Old 10-26-2013, 07:11 PM
 
Location: I'm not lost, I'm exploring!
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My bad, I'm not the OP on this one. It was under my subscribed links from years back, so I just assumed.

I hope the real OP was able to dump the scandalous husband, and move on top someone that would be more respectful of her! We may never know!
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Old 10-26-2013, 09:42 PM
 
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My bad, I'm not the OP on this one. It was under my subscribed links from years back, so I just assumed.

I hope the real OP was able to dump the scandalous husband, and move on top someone that would be more respectful of her! We may never know!
Hmmm do you read romance novels or have you read 50 Shades of Grey? Same thing. No difference.
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Old 10-26-2013, 09:43 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Hmmm do you read romance novels or have you read 50 Shades of Grey? Same thing. No difference.
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Old 10-26-2013, 10:29 PM
 
Location: State of Superior
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If a man becomes overly obsessed with porn , it's mostly due to problems with the wife. What she should do , is be more understanding and go with the flow, join in watching the Porn sites. It won't be long when the guy starts cutting back on his porn. For most men porn is a Fantizes , from reality. All healthy men are that way in part encourage it , or , drive your husband right out of the relationship...if there IS one. !
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Old 10-26-2013, 11:01 PM
 
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I think most of the time when women really get upset over men looking at porn it's due to her own insecurities. Been there, done that. The husband giving up porn won't fix that. I was insecure, and I blamed my insecurities on my husband for looking at porn. It took several years of really growing up and working on myself to realize it wasn't his problem; it was mine. I'm much more secure in who I am, and a little porn can no longer hurt my feelings or make me feel bad about myself.
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Old 10-26-2013, 11:05 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I think most of the time when women really get upset over men looking at porn it's due to her own insecurities. Been there, done that. The husband giving up porn won't fix that. I was insecure, and I blamed my insecurities on my husband for looking at porn. It took several years of really growing up and working on myself to realize it wasn't his problem; it was mine. I'm much more secure in who I am, and a little porn can no longer hurt my feelings or make me feel bad about myself.
A little porn is fine, it's when some guy lets it take over his life is when it's a problem.... I was never a huge porn guy.... I like naked ladies, as I'm a full blooded man , but I don't get these guys that just go crazy over porn...

Porn sex looks fake and silly to me... for the most part......
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Old 10-27-2013, 08:01 AM
 
Location: State of Superior
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A little porn is fine, it's when some guy lets it take over his life is when it's a problem.... I was never a huge porn guy.... I like naked ladies, as I'm a full blooded man , but I don't get these guys that just go crazy over porn...

Porn sex looks fake and silly to me... for the most part......
Its theater after all , why get so up tight about it , sit back and watch the show. Somewhere in the back of our minds is a door to be opened, if only we had the key.......
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