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Old 05-29-2010, 03:59 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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What's the big deal? You both sit on the couch, put a porno on the tube, and she talks about Evan Stone's rod while you comment on Katie Morgan's boobs. You both kiss, snuggle and caress, get hot and bothered, and end up doing it on the couch while they do it on TV. Nothin' to it!

Maybe. But what when the guy is massively turned on by outrageous sized butts and boobs, and she doesn't have them? E and F sized boobs are not common after all. Maybe he does love her and is sexually turned on to her, but wants to glance at some once in a while as a appetizer? I have little doubt in my mind that sharing that with her she will critique herself against that. Leading to the guy to have to reassure her and answer a thousand questions and deal with jabs at him about "what he really wants". When in the end he really does want her....
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:00 PM
 
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well in that case as well it just depends because my husband can comment about some chick but i too can make my own comment without hurting eachothers feelings.. i think it depends on the situation..
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:00 PM
 
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I'm just wondering about when a woman says "share it with him". What happens when it is just pics or a vid of some woman solo?, if the wife or girlfriend admires women also, well maybe, but that isn't usually the case.

I mean for instance, I am a boob fanatic, and a huge booty fanatic. There are some woman out there who model with that, that frankly have attributes that just aren't seen everyday.

Now, I being single, can do what ever I want. However if I were commited I would obviously love and care about her and be turned on by her to do so, but I might have fallen for her for various reasons not just because she had the perfect everything, and maybe I would once in a while check out a pic or vid of some model to admire.

Is that right or wrong?, guess that depends on a person's pov.

Now turn it around. Say my woman has a fascination with guys with certain attribute. She loves me, I satisfy her in many ways. She commited to me because of so. However if once in a while on her alone time she wanted to look at other guys, fine. I am not threatened by a video or jpeg of a guy. But I wouldn't want to sit there with her and admire the guys, that might make me question myself.
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What's the big deal? You both sit on the couch, put a porno on the tube, and she talks about Evan Stone's rod while you comment on Katie Morgan's boobs. You both kiss, snuggle and caress, get hot and bothered, and end up doing it on the couch while they do it on TV. Nothin' to it!
LK, professorsenator has it down. I don't "answer both phones" so to speak, but I know when a woman is hot. I also know my husband very well and know what gets his attention. He seems to have developed quite a taste for tall extra voluptuous, big-breasted big-bootied women, which I'm not nor will I ever be. If I see a women I think he'll like, I point her out, whisper something really naughty in his ear and we're on.

I know that I will never be the most beautiful women in the world. I know that I will never look 20 again, but I'm also confident enough to know these girls will never be a threat to me or my marriage.

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You know what would solve the problem? A video game revolved around having sex and lots of nakedness! You could play out your sexual fantasies with each other via X-Box then go to the room and get the "live" version!
I heard there is a web-enabled vibrator.
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:01 PM
 
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Guy watch porn, it's what we do. Watch it with him.
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:02 PM
 
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I know that I will never be the most beautiful women in the world. I know that I will never look 20 again, but I'm also confident enough to know these girls will never be a threat to me or my marriage.
Spot on right there!



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I heard there is a web-enabled vibrator.
Say whaaaaaaaaat?
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:06 PM
 
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well in my case lion king im not bi as far as i know : ) but i can appreciate a good looking woman but would any guy get selfconcious if his woman likes another mans stuff if he himself is cheking out other woman and say they think its nothing

I wouldn't care if my woman checked out guys on her alone time. But if I am sitting there and she is saying "gosh look at his dark eyes and olive skin, I have always been a sucker for that" and her saying "gosh look at that 10 incher, I always wanted to try riding one of those". And I am fair with blue eyes and ugh..not 10 inches than yeah, hearing that will go to my mind. Even if my blue eyes and fair skin turn her on, I knowing that will make me question myself.

The thing is when we say alone time, is the amount of alone time, at least when it come to that. If you are hardly getting any because your SO is always doing alone time, well then yes there is a problem.
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:09 PM
 
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lionking i .....ok so you like big boobs and big butts but if that were all that turned you on then how do you get up to woman that doesnt have them can you answer that without saying look at people who do
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:12 PM
 
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I wouldn't care if my woman checked out guys on her alone time. But if I am sitting there and she is saying "gosh look at his dark eyes and olive skin, I have always been a sucker for that" and her saying "gosh look at that 10 incher, I always wanted to try riding one of those".And I am fair with blue eyes and ugh..not 10 inches than yeah, hearing that will go to my mind. Even if my blue eyes and fair skin turn her on, I knowing that will make me question myself.

The thing is when we say alone time, is the amount of alone time, at least when it come to that. If you are hardly getting any because your SO is always doing alone time, well then yes there is a problem.
Honesty is always the best policy…
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Old 05-29-2010, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Destrehan, Louisiana
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You know what would solve the problem? A video game revolved around having sex and lots of nakedness! You could play out your sexual fantasies with each other via X-Box then go to the room and get the "live" version!

You just created the SEX-Box, 1000 reps to seeniorita



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Old 05-29-2010, 04:15 PM
 
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I wouldn't care if my woman checked out guys on her alone time. But if I am sitting there and she is saying "gosh look at his dark eyes and olive skin, I have always been a sucker for that" and her saying "gosh look at that 10 incher, I always wanted to try riding one of those".
Any girl that would talk like that in front of their man is a skank and/or has no respect for them.
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