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Old 05-30-2010, 06:59 AM
 
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well there you go...the woman has basically cheapened herself, has sex with men who only want sex and nothing more, is treated like a dumping ground, and then wonders why she has never felt anything...

i wish women would think more of themselves than this. but its probably other issues in her life that have led to this

 
Old 05-30-2010, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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This woman is actually a good woman but in a wrong way. She feels the need to please men to win their friendship and acceptance. It may be the way this woman comes on to men. She may present herself as just the one night stand wonder. The guys this attracts have no interest in pleasing her, only themselves.

Maybe this woman needs more stimulation then others to clean her pipes, this is quite normal, just not a good match for the type of guy who just pokes, pumps and shoots the cervix. She needs a nice caring man with PATIENCE. Imagine that. A man with patience. A man who will do everything in his power to create the condition where the uterus, vagina and anus contract simultaneously to create nuclear explosions for the woman before he even thinks about cleaning his own pipes.

At this point her orgasms will become eargasms to those within earshot distance.
 
Old 05-30-2010, 10:06 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Is English not your primary language.

Can she masturbate, if so, the guy can emulate that for her.
 
Old 05-30-2010, 10:22 AM
 
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Maybe she's never had one, ever. There are many women who haven't for one reason or another.

However, I think she has bigger fish to fry than her big O, if she's sleeping with so many men, none of whom really care about her.
 
Old 05-30-2010, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Sango, TN
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Originally Posted by jeepgirl27 View Post
My friend told me her sister who's been with lots of men and I mean lots of men never had an orgasm before. So nosey me asked her sister why and she said no man has never given her one it was like wham bam thank you ma'm. She said they all done there biz and that was it
I was like omg...You never got to the change to say oooh my God..
she told me she just wants one man to take the time and give her one.
She is 43 and can you believe she never had one?
Only 30% of women can reach climax through vaginal intercourse.

The other 70% need more clitoral stimulation.

There is a small percentage, somewhere around 5% or less, who will never, and are physically unable to reach climax.

Perhaps she is one of them. I would suggest she talk to her doctor about it. Also, Viagra does wonderful things for women. By increasing blood flow to the vaginal walls, it increases sensitivity.
 
Old 05-30-2010, 11:12 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Maybe she's never had one, ever. There are many women who haven't for one reason or another.

However, I think she has bigger fish to fry than her big O, if she's sleeping with so many men, none of whom really care about her.
I agree, not making any moral judgments, but sleeping around doesn't do the soul any good.

 
Old 05-30-2010, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Space Coast
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We're each responsible for our own sexual pleasure... it's up to us to learn what we need in that regard, to communicate what we need in that regard, and to listen to what our PARTNER tells us... rather than what past lovers/porn/the media tells us. And we need to be smart about who we are inviting into our beds.
I agree with this. A little self exploration will teach her more about herself than sex with several partners.

Plus, no wonder so many women fake it; look at all the replies implying that there is something wrong with her!
 
Old 05-30-2010, 12:29 PM
 
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perhaps she has vaginal issues... think of that? and dont wait around for a man to give you one... go and get one
 
Old 05-30-2010, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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