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Old 04-27-2011, 08:30 PM
 
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I agree with the first part of your statement...many gays prefer fit, muscular males...guys that look tough...the opposite as portrayed in my photos...so the tougher you act and look as a male, the more likely your likely to be 'gay bait'...

But the second part of your statement...I'm uneasy with...I don't know why people always equate gay, and rape, in the same sentence...

Unless in prison, gay males want to establish a relationship, just like any hetro couple...

If a gay male hit's up on me...I could care less...I see nothing wrong with someone finding me attractive...I could care less...it could be a 6 leggeded alien...and I wouldn't care...



Just goes to show, most hetro males are made of glass on the inside...
I do agree. It doesn't bother me very much. It's just different, so it feels a little awkward when I'm in the situation. It's OK to hit on men if you're gay, I just don't wish to be pursued if I told me no I'm not gay.
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Old 04-27-2011, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Then why is it a majority of the marchers in the gay pride parades tend to look like you? These so called "parodies". At least they're honest about it and not pretending to be something they aren't.

You accuse many of the straight men here of being close minded, insecure, or cowards, but you are the one who is afraid of coming out of the closet. Come on TWT, come on out into the sunshine...get out of that closet!


Did you not read anything I just wrote???
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Old 04-27-2011, 08:34 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Originally Posted by Time and Space View Post
I agree with the first part of your statement...many gays prefer fit, muscular males...guys that look tough...the opposite as portrayed in my photos...so the tougher you act and look as a male, the more likely your likely to be 'gay bait'...

But the second part of your statement...I'm uneasy with...I don't know why people always equate gay, and rape, in the same sentence...

Unless in prison, gay males want to establish a relationship, just like any hetro couple...

If a gay male hit's up on me...I could care less...I see nothing wrong with someone finding me attractive...I could care less...it could be a 6 leggeded alien...and I wouldn't care...



Just goes to show, most hetro males are made of glass on the inside...


You sound like you would be blushing-lol
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Old 04-27-2011, 09:10 PM
 
Location: University City, Philadelphia
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A lot of heterosexual single middle aged women flirt with me (I am an "in-shape" middle aged guy with a full head of hair and very well groomed and professional looking). I like it and it flatters my ego.

If they pursue the matter, I have to tell them that I play on "the other team." The usual disappointed reply is "Why are the best ones either married, taken, or gay?!"

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Old 04-27-2011, 09:16 PM
 
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A lot of heterosexual single middle aged women flirt with me (I am an "in-shape" middle aged guy with a full head of hair and very well groomed and professional looking). I like it and it flatters my ego.

If they pursue the matter, I have to tell them that I play on "the other team." The usual disappointed reply is "Why are the best ones either married, taken, or gay?!"

You send them to me and I'll send "my" "homosexuals of the day" over to you.

Deal?

(So much for so-called "gaydar").
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Old 04-27-2011, 10:36 PM
 
Location: Florida
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You send them to me and I'll send "my" "homosexuals of the day" over to you.

Deal?

(So much for so-called "gaydar").
This has got to be the funniest, most cute, post of the day...

You win the post of the day award...

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Old 04-27-2011, 10:45 PM
 
Location: Sarasota, Florida
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Straight guys cannot be converted. Period. There are however, many straight guys, who have thought about it, to the point of being intrigued. I served six years in the U.S. Navy, and when I tell people at least 30% of us were having encounters they usually don't believe it. For those that did participate, many prefered women. Others would discover they only want to be with another guy from then on.

I would argue with other guys that were in the military who dissagreed with me, and the problem is they were oblivious to the games we played to figure out who was interested, and who was not. Often, it was the guys who talked about woment the most, that were the most interested.

ROFL.......my private saying is.......

"It seems about one third of guys are only a six pack(beer) away from being gay"......

............. and just "this one time/dude".
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Old 04-27-2011, 10:48 PM
 
Location: Sarasota, Florida
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Well I do have an imaginary girlfriend.

I normally can't tell when a gay guy is looking at me. But sometimes I get that sense that I'm being followed and I turn around see a guy stalking me

"What the hell you want!"

The guy runs off scared.

Now I have some pepper spray for the wierdos.

On my best day, I usually get eye groped, eye raped, eye humped by women.

Just two weeks ago I was walking in the mall to the movie theater and there was a whole line of girls. Their eyes were on me like white on rice. When I passed them, all of a sudden I felt cold. I looked down and I saw that I was naked. I looked behind me and there was my clothes that I was wearing at the line of the girls.

Talk about undressing with your eyes.
Well....I've had groups of females in College come up to me......"grab my junk".........tell me you must have a nice ****.......etc....I was flattered..... and I'm not heterophobic.
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Old 04-27-2011, 10:53 PM
 
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I'm married but EVERY SINGLE time I go to a gay bar men hit on me.

Strange.
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Old 04-27-2011, 10:59 PM
 
Location: Sarasota, Florida
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I'm married but EVERY SINGLE time I go to a gay bar men hit on me.

Strange.
Too funny.......

To other posters....... yes....... Gay folks have "gaydar" but like everything in life it ain't 100% accurate.
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