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Old 05-31-2010, 01:49 PM
 
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trust me on this one, "no" simply means "not there yet"
although if you are taking their phone numbers, you are getting there

it's not about "them" out there
it's about you examining your attitudes and beliefs towards your own sexuality
No.
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Old 05-31-2010, 01:51 PM
 
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Do you live in San Fransisco Bay?

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For whatever reason, I have been approached by four gay men in just as many weeks. This is the first time in my life in which I have been approached by men. While I am not homophobic, it makes me sad that they are not women. I think it is related to the fact that I started weightlifting again a couple months ago and gained 30 lbs. And the fact that I have allowed my facial hair to grow.

Has anyone else had an experience like this?
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Old 05-31-2010, 01:53 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I'm not sure how other straight men feel about this, but whenever I have stumbled across gay men porn I feel sick and want to puke.....given you are questioning your sexuality maybe watch this and see what your reaction is.....just a thought.....
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Old 05-31-2010, 02:53 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i would suggest if you continue to be hit on at the gym and nowhere else, that you switch gyms. also rethink giving our your phone number.
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Old 05-31-2010, 05:06 PM
 
Location: NYC
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This is like a cinderella story. Before no one used to notice you, now you're getting constantly hit on after you've had a make over so to speak.
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Old 05-31-2010, 06:00 PM
 
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I suggest he try homosexuality. Experiment with some fine featured muscle men. And see how he likes it. It might form into a wonderful relationship.
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Old 05-31-2010, 06:01 PM
 
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That's the anxiety you have because you are turned on by it. Homophobic men are the most gay. Give it a try.


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I'm not sure how other straight men feel about this, but whenever I have stumbled across gay men porn I feel sick and want to puke.....given you are questioning your sexuality maybe watch this and see what your reaction is.....just a thought.....
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Old 05-31-2010, 06:02 PM
 
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Some people are just never pleased. I think he just take the hot gym guy for "a ride".

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This is like a cinderella story. Before no one used to notice you, now you're getting constantly hit on after you've had a make over so to speak.
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Old 05-31-2010, 11:06 PM
 
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You should let the guys know you aren't interested into boys. If they don't respect you, you should just cut all contacts with them.
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Old 05-31-2010, 11:28 PM
 
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No. He should give in and do "the nasty".

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You should let the guys know you aren't interested into boys. If they don't respect you, you should just cut all contacts with them.
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