Physically... for the women (personality, personal, depression, issues)

[BacktoNE]

A) muscular, ripped chest
B) ripped, six-pack abs

A) facial hair
B) no facial hair

A) big, defined biceps
B) big, defined triceps
C) big, defined forearms

A) killer eyes
B) killer smile

A) muscular, broad, V-shape back
B) lean, fat-free, shaven, ripped frontal V



Other than what is highlighted in blue, most of these things aren't all that important to me, and if I'm going to choose, I kind of fall in between.

Ripped isn't important, although I do find a well built chest and shoulder area to be sexy. I find the muscles developed from work and activity far more appealing than the cut look you get from the gym.

Strong arms are sexy, and when attached to the right guy, give great hugs.
Strong arms attached to a jerk? Who cares.

And unless a man has so much body hair that he looks like a gorilla, leave the chest hair alone! Shaved looks ridiculous, especially on a guy with darker skin and dark hair. Blondes can get away with it a little better.



I put a far higher value on intelligence, kindness and a great sense of humor. Without that, it really doesn't matter what the body looks like.

[seeniorita]

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

Please choose your preferred of the two.

A) muscular, ripped chest
B) ripped, six-pack abs

A) facial hair
B) no facial hair

A) big, defined biceps
B) big, defined triceps
C) big, defined forearms

A) killer eyes
B) killer smile

A) muscular, broad, V-shape back
B) lean, fat-free, shaven, ripped frontal V

I never liked multiple choice so I'm going with "all of the above"

[robee70]

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

Please choose your preferred of the two.

A) muscular, ripped chest
B) ripped, six-pack abs
I don't care about ripped as much as toned or defined. Too ripped is unappealing to me. I do have a thing for nice abs and a nice happy trail .

A) facial hair
B) no facial hair

A) big, defined biceps
B) big, defined triceps
C) big, defined forearms
All of the above, but they don't have to be big. Too big isn't appealing either.

A) killer eyes
B) killer smile
Both, if your smile doesn't reach your eyes it's not your best smile, although I slightly prefer eyes.

A) muscular, broad, V-shape back
B) lean, fat-free, shaven, ripped frontal V
I don't care if they are defined and toned, but I don't like a man who shaves his body

answers in bold

[max's mama]

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

I've been here the whole time!

So you like hairy chests?

I mean, on the first question... a big chest or a ripped, washboard midsection? Which of the two do you like more?

I thought my love for hairy chests was well-known on this forum.

I don't really care for big chest or ripped midsection, but if I had to pick one, I would pick the six pack.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Brendancclarke

I'm going to send this to all the guys I know who don't beleive me when I tell them this. Sure being handsome etc gives a guy a few points in his favour but not as much as guys think. Right?

When it comes to looks I think sometihng does count: The way he presents himself. I mean if he has a beard, it cant have bits of last nights soup in it, it has to be clean and deliberate looking. You can't look like a mummysboy who cant look after himself. You have to look like you actually own a mirror.

I thik women like men to look good and muscular or athletic at least but VANITY is a negative vibe for most women so if you overdo it with the model type muscles, they might react to the muscles but will simultaneously respond (negatively) to the vanity.

Am I right? Women please.

I think you are 1000% correct

[Wingsy]

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

Please choose your preferred of the two.

A) muscular, ripped chest
B) ripped, six-pack abs

Neither. I find visible musculature like this very unattractive. And good lord, if I can see veins overlaying bulging muscles, I'm running for the door as fast as I can. I find that a major visual turn-off.

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

A) facial hair
B) no facial hair

I'm good with either. My husband has a mustache, my boyfriend has just a goatee. My husband wouldn't look good with just a goatee, and my boyfriend looks silly with a mustache.

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

A) big, defined biceps
B) big, defined triceps
C) big, defined forearms

I like strong forearms... but again, like the first one, I don't want to see bulging muscles.

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

A) killer eyes
B) killer smile

No preference... both are important to me. If I don't find one or the other attractive, I'm probably not going to "get past it." Actually, I guess I do have a greater preference for intense gazes over quality of smile, but the smile still needs to be good.

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

A) muscular, broad, V-shape back
B) lean, fat-free, shaven, ripped frontal V

Again with the darn muscles... pass, pass, pass.

I like big guys... the ones who look more like tanks than Mr. Olympus. I'm a tall, strong woman. I want a man who can overpower me with his sheer weight and overall stature, not with muscles he grew in a gym. In terms of hair, I like both. Hubby has about 10 little hairs on his chest... he's just not a hairy guy. Boyfriend is very furry. It's just how they each are, and it fits each of them perfectly.

[larkmoni]

A) muscular, ripped chest
B) ripped, six-pack abs

A) facial hair
B) no facial hair

it depends

A) big, defined biceps
B) big, defined triceps
C) big, defined forearms

doesn't matter

A) killer eyes
B) killer smile

Everyone's eyes are beautiful, but only some people have a killer smile!


A) muscular, broad, V-shape back
B) lean, fat-free, shaven, ripped frontal V

I'm 42 ... (not to mention married) - I have no expectations about this, one way or the other, LOL.

[larkmoni]

Originally Posted by Wingsy

I'm good with either. My husband has a mustache, my boyfriend has just a goatee. My husband wouldn't look good with just a goatee, and my boyfriend looks silly with a mustache.




Hubby has about 10 little hairs on his chest... he's just not a hairy guy. Boyfriend is very furry. It's just how they each are, and it fits each of them perfectly.

"Hubby" and "boyfriend"? WhachutallkinboutWillis?

[MAtheBanker]

A) muscular, ripped chest
B) ripped, six-pack abs
C) Neither! I don't care for muscle at all.

A) facial hair, oh baby, oh baby!!!
B) no facial hair

A) big, defined biceps
B) big, defined triceps
C) big, defined forearms, a little bulge is good

A) killer eyes
B) killer smile

A) muscular, broad, V-shape back
B) lean, fat-free, shaven, ripped frontal V

I'm really not attracted to conventional guys. I like mine big. Like, curvy big. But not in the girl way

[MAtheBanker]

Originally Posted by larkmoni

"Hubby" and "boyfriend"? WhachutallkinboutWillis?

You must've missed the Swingers thread