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Dude I think your thinking way too hard about this whole situation. First I agree that if your not exclusive, then your not doing anything wrong. Also, 3 dates is WAY too soon to be thinking about an exclusive relationship, that might scare her a bit. What you need to do is schedule a date with girl #2, and see where she stands. No need to decide so fast, life is a learning experience, and you sound like you need to explore a lot more. Have fun, and just enjoy the ride, when it's meant to happen believe me, it will.
ohh and PS. Girl #1 definitely sounds like she isn't looking for anything serious....
I have dated more than one person at a time. Just dating...coffee or lunch. As soon as a dating relationship looks like it might become a sexual, more serious relationship, for me, it's one man at a time.
One reason is time. I don't/didn't have time to date more than one man seriously. The other reason for me was fairness. I didn't think it was fair to the other person. If I like this person enough to think there might be something between us, I want to pursue that. Not other people.
Maybe I'm just not all that good at juggling but it just didn't feel right to me.
I'm torn between the decision to shoot her a text to see what she's up to this weekend (by the spare chance she didn't get my voicemail, her phone sucks), or to just leave her alone and hope she calls me someday so I can tell her how childish this is and that I don't want any part of it.
If she is playing games, then don't give her that much importance. Ignore her and go have fun with girls #2,3,4,5,etc...
She's not even worth the 3rd degree you're going to give her. Just forget her.
It's been 3 days since I called her last. I just realized she was in NYC for a business trip the last 2 days which could be a little justification for not calling back, especially since she did warn me about being busy . Either way, I'm cool with it. I won't give her heat if she calls, but I won't call her again either. I lined up date with girl #2 for Sunday at noon, just grabbing coffee.
It's a little disappointing, but I feel like if girl 1 was interested, she wouldn't want to discourage me like this. Too bad for her.
Thanks for the words of advice.
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