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Pole dancing is not only for fun, it's a sport. You won't even feel like you are working out and the next day you will be reminded of the fact that you have muscle in places you didn't know you had any.
It's so exhilarating. I have been taking classes for over a year now. I am hooked!
Heh, if my wife wanted to do that it's okay with me so long as she wasn't planning on a career change of becoming a stripper...and she demonstrated for me at home.
Somehow your bf is intimidated by you taking pole dancing classes. I wouldn't have drop the class but would have gone. Now, you've given him the upper hand and let him know now that he can bully you and make you feel bad about yourself.
A few months ago a girlfriend of mine asked me if I was interested in joining her for a pole dancing fitness class. Having always heard they are a barrell of laughs with the girls and also help to get you fit, I was instantly excited and accepted. When I went home that night and told my boyfriend I was going to be taking the class he was not pleased. He went all quiet on me and when I asked him what was up he said he thought doing the class was sleazy and disrespectful to him, and that if his family was having a get together one night and I was at one of my "classes" he would be embarrassed to tell them so. I explained to him that I wasn't going to be dancing in a thong in front of a room full of men, but in a hall in my sweats with a bunch of other women, but he wouldn't have it.
He didn't say he didn't want me to do it, but he made me feel terribly guilty so I told my girlfriend I had changed my mind. All these months later, even though I didn't even take the class, he makes remarks if anything about pole dancing comes on tv - "she's just getting fit, right?" and things like that. I ask him "please don't say that, I didn't even take the class" and he responds with "hey, I didn't say you couldn't do it". In my opinion he didn't have to. If I had chosen to take that class he would have punished me and punished me, but he would have done it in a joking way even though he was serious, just so he didn't show up as the bad guy.
Guys how would you feel if your girl came to you and told you she wanted to participate in one of these classes? Is my bf just being insecure or is he right? To me it just seemed like a bit of fun with your girlfriends!
I'd laugh my behind off.......outta shape old mother of 3 doing a pole dancing class.......and then I'd encourage her to go out and do it!
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