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Old 06-15-2010, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by genx View Post
I once broke up with a boyfriend because he said that he was just "settling" with me. I definitely don't want to be with someone who isn't crazy about me.

So I married someone who was crazy about me and things were good for a while, but feelings change over the years and now I'm not so crazy about him. The marriage is good for me because he'll do anything for me. Treats me like a queen.

Anyway, you got married very young, but that doesn't mean that it couldn't work out. Over the years you may feel serious doubts about the marriage and its up to you if you want to weather the storm and stay with the person. If you're going to be in a relationship better to be with someone who is crazy about you rather than the other way around.
True but why would any person want to be married with someone who is not as crazy about you as you are about her/him?
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Old 06-15-2010, 05:06 PM
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I too met my husband at age 19, and he was 20, back in 1979.....we're still married by the way!

I understand the mixed feelings...I too have a husband who treats me like a queen, but I think since we met when I was barely out of HS, amd he was my 'one and only', I sometimes feel like I missed the whole scene of meeting MEN. Sorry guys....guys bodies don't even mature fully until they are about 21....
Would I cheat on him? Never.....
My friends are jealous of the wonderful husband I have and I know I'll never find one better than him.

That said...I still can relate to the OP's feelings.
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