Are you a submissive woman? (marry, older, issues, respect)

[kshe95girl]

Originally Posted by Visvaldis

Many women are just plain odd and scatterbrained. First, they'll say 'don't boss me around, don't tell what to do' as they wait for suggestions and commands.

You really should start hanging around with a better class of women.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by kshe95girl

I asked a question of you a few pages back, perhaps you didnt see it.....
So, I'll ask again.
What are the "trivial things" you spoke of a few pages back?
Could you be a bit more specific, please?

So far in this thread, or at least for the last few pages, I see a 3:0 question to non-response to questions about the specifics of posts. It makes me curious as to what they're thinking about when they read the questions and decide to ignore them.

[robertpolyglot]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

So far in this thread, or at least for the last few pages, I see a 3:0 question to non-response to questions about the specifics of posts. It makes me curious as to what they're thinking about when they read the questions and decide to ignore them.

That we are on a public forum and don't need to air ALL of our laundry.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by robertpolyglot

That we are on a public forum and don't need to air ALL of our laundry.

If you make a statement and someone asks for clarification on that statement, I don't see how it's airing dirty laundry since you already made the decision to post it.

[kshe95girl]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

If you make a statement and someone asks for clarification on that statement, I don't see how it's airing dirty laundry since you already made the decision to post it.

Exactly.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by kshe95girl

Exactly.

Something else to add to the unanswered question bit, is the refusal to acknowledge a point bit.

[jasper12]

I actually view "submissiveness" as almost a personality disorder, dependent personality disorder, or a "fetish", bizarre as it sounds, it is almost like a sexual thrill to be completely submissive. The further it goes, the more twisted it gets.

It is not easy to have a trait like this, believe me. I needed therapy for a long time to actually realize how enmeshed I was in making my husband happy. It was classical "co-dependence".

I am this way, it is "wired". I accept it. Same as having blonde hair, or blue eyes. Have I changed? Maybe I am less submissive than I used to be.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by jasper12

I actually view "submissiveness" as almost a personality disorder, dependent personality disorder, or a "fetish", bizarre as it sounds, it is almost like a sexual thrill to be completely submissive. The further it goes, the more twisted it gets.

It is not easy to have a trait like this, believe me. I needed therapy for a long time to actually realize how enmeshed I was in making my husband happy. It was classical "co-dependence".

I am this way, it is "wired". I accept it. Same as having blonde hair, or blue eyes. Have I changed? Maybe I am less submissive than I used to be.

That's heavy. Thanks for sharing.

[kshe95girl]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Something else to add to the unanswered question bit, is the refusal to acknowledge a point bit.

Makes one wonder, doesnt it?

[robertpolyglot]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Something else to add to the unanswered question bit, is the refusal to acknowledge a point bit.

With your "always gotta get the last dig in" attitude, I SERIOUSLY doubt you have the happy marriage you portray to have. It has to be combative. Ditto for the Ocala lady, who also reappeared.