Can we kiss? (hell, church, bible, pray)

[GokuB]

well my question here is, can girls and boys kiss and makeout? I know not to have sex untell your married because thats what the bibles says

[Mark S.]

How old are you, GokuB?

Seriously, I think you'd be best served talking about this with your parents or a pastor rather than a bunch of strangers on the 'net. I commend you for asking though!

[Miss Blue]

Hi, Gokub, welcome to the forum..I think most of us will be reluctant to answer your questions about such a personal matter.. That subject is best talked over with someone who is older than you whom you know very well and trust a lot..Maybe one of your parents, an older brother or sister or even your grandparent..I am a grandma and my grandchildren have no problem with asking my advice..

[Perceiver]

Originally Posted by GokuB

well my question here is, can girls and boys kiss and makeout? I know not to have sex untell your married because thats what the bibles says

Basically you must pray about it (and spend time in the scripture just reading too, reading the word of God helps attune your heart to the guidance of God. Pray untill you receive the leadership of God inside of your heart on this...but this is the thing. Prayers for God's guidance only work if you are willing to do the thing you don't want to do with your whole heart. In other words, you must get to the point where you don't mind not kissing and making out. You must get to the point where you don't mind not doing those things at all, and your fine with waiting. Once you are at that point then you can pray and hear what God has to say. As long as you reeeally want to do it you won't be able to hear anything but your own desires.
That is how all prayers for God's direction work. You must be willing to do either thing he might tell you to do, and when you are, then you are open to hear him. If that isn't done, you can't hear him.

[allah truth]

Originally Posted by GokuB

well my question here is, can girls and boys kiss and makeout? I know not to have sex untell your married because thats what the bibles says

just aslong as you don't enjoy it

[nickcopernicus]

Originally Posted by GokuB

well my question here is, can girls and boys kiss and makeout? I know not to have sex untell your married because thats what the bibles says

Nick:
Absolutely not! Boys and girls should not even be in the same room with each other until they are married. It's sinful!


Cheers,

Nick

[GCSTroop]

I'll touch on this like I'm walking on eggshells....

Do what you know is right, what your parents taught you is right, and let that be a guiding beacon in your life.

I'm assuming you're a young man (early teens perhaps?), and believe me, I know exactly what that's like. You're body's going to be going through a lot of changes and you're going to have certain, um, impulses. Above all, you shouldn't feel guilty for something that happens naturally, but do try to exert some self control and don't let things get out of hand. I'm assuming your parents have told you their expectations. Instead of wondering about what God would think ask yourself 'What would my parents think of me?'

[Fat Freddy]

Some of the best and most exciting times in my life were when I was 11 or 12 and we had "Spin the Bottle" kissing parties.

I didn't have "real sex" until I was about 20.
I was a slow learner.

[ontheroad]

I'm going to tag along with Mark S, and ask how old you are and whether you've taken this up with your parents and pastor.

That's where I'd want my own children to go first regardless of age or religious inclination.

Originally Posted by Mark S.

How old are you, GokuB?

Seriously, I think you'd be best served talking about this with your parents or a pastor rather than a bunch of strangers on the 'net. I commend you for asking though!

[GokuB]

ok. I thought this would be an easy question but does it matter what age you are? If you must know I guess I could tell you. The reason I'm kinda asking this question is because I'm pretty tight on religion lol (thats what my friends tell me) they say theres no god and I shouldn't believe in it, but I won't give up my belief that easy lol. They don't say it in a mean way. So don't get the wrong idea. There saying the bible is full of plot holes and they ask " is it alright to kiss and makeout? There has to be something in the bible saying something about kissing. Asking people online is one way of avoiding embarrassment. Plus this can benefit the forum too ^-^. once person already ask about sex. this one is about kissing. asking my parents isn't a good idea >.< because they don't really go to church much =\.