I am much more of a Christian than being a Gay person (Isaiah, pray)
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That's a horrible reason to get married. It's stunningly stupid and selfish. Be sure you let any prospective wife, whom I'm feeling very sorry for, that you want to get married so you can stop masturbating and inherit the kingdom of heaven.
She should have that information.
Who said that was my only reason?
I want to get married to start a family first and foremost.
I would like to do that sooner rather than later due to my problem with masturbation.
Certainly. One can not continually life a sinful lifestyle. Regardless of the sin.
We should not support sinful lifestyles or people picking and choosing what to obey in the Bible.
I 100% support this man's desire to be a Christian while also being a homosexual. He just needs to understand just how hard that will be and ways to make it a possibility.
On the contrary, I masturbate, and it is one of the biggest things in my life I need / must stop if I want to inherit the Kingdom of God. It's a dangerous game / tight rope to play.
It is something I think about constantly. Hence why I want to get married ASAP to help stop this sinful behavior.
I am in no delusion about my sin and I hope the OP is also aware of his.
You masturbate but don't have lustful thoughts about women?
The thought is just as bad as the action according to Jesus.
You masturbate but don't have lustful thoughts about women?
The thought is just as bad as the action according to Jesus.
You are putting words in my mouth. I masturbate and look and porn along with lustful thoughts.
I am sinning and need / must stop this if I want to inherit the Kingdom of God. I am in no disillusion about my sins and that it is something I must stop.
Hence, this is the concept I am trying to get the OP to realize. It is gonna be REALLY hard to be a Christian that is homosexual and that there are things he is gonna have to figure out if he wants to not life a sinful lifestyle.
Why i recommend him to get a wife, even though he is a homosexual.
You are putting words in my mouth. I masturbate and look and porn along with lustful thoughts.
I am sinning and need / must stop this if I want to inherit the Kingdom of God. I am in no disillusion about my sins and that it is something I must stop.
Hence, this is the concept I am trying to get the OP to realize. It is gonna be REALLY hard to be a Christian that is homosexual and that there are things he is gonna have to figure out if he wants to not life a sinful lifestyle.
Why i recommend him to get a wife, even though he is a homosexual.
Getting a wife will not stop a homosexual from having "lustful" thought about the same sex.
If you married a man would you stop thinking about women?
Getting a wife will not stop a homosexual from having "lustful" thought about the same sex.
If you married a man would you stop thinking about women?
There is a difference between simply thinking about the opposite sex and everyday go about undressing and thinking sexual thoughts about the opposite sex.
No different whether one is straight or gay.
Getting a wife will simply be an outlet to fulfill his basic human biological need to gain an organism (possible outlet) without committing a sin.
What about marriage is going to prevent masturbation? You are making your lack of self control the responsibility of another? What happens if you cannot stop after marriage. Who will you blame?
If a person wants to lay blame on others, they will.
No one is singing how their sin is better than anyone else's. We all must as Christians turn from a sinful lifestyle.
Have you not read the posts from MEDALLOKUYA ?
He has been seriously acting like homosexual sex was some how worse than adultery.
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