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Actions stems from a calm and equanimous intellect leads to progress in life, while reactions stems from our emotions or agitated mind results in deteriorating relationships leading to regression in our professional and personal lives.
Self-awareness helps one to be emotionally composed in the midst of chaos or adversity and enable one to make right decisions, as opposed to an emotionally agitated mind which can result in wrong decisions and unwanted consequences.
I disagree.
One's reaction can, and in my case often is, a measured one based on probable outcome(s).
My humble pranams and well-wishes to all of you here.
Quoted above are a list of teachings of various masters which I compiled myself for a better understanding and contemplation of the message of proactivity and reactivity.
Through study and analysis of the master's teachings, I had come to the understanding that it is proactive action which is what is known as virtue or proper action while reactive action is what is known as sin or bad karma.
While proactivity is what stems from a state of awareness or mindfulness , reactivity on the other hand stems from the ego .
Living in the present moment reveals the state of awareness, while living in the past or future due to desires, craving or incessant thinking is what generates the ego, which obscures the natural state of awareness.
The state of awareness generates peace and happiness , while the ego generates suffering and sorrow.
This is why the Buddha had said thus ," Mindfulness ( constant awareness ) is the true virtue."
And why Eckhart Tolle had stated thus. " Evil is an extreme manifestation of human unconsciousness."
Writing this in my notebook and constant study and contemplation of these teachings from time to time helped me to become a more self-aware, proactive and less reactive person. This understanding brought a deep sense of calmness, peace, contentment and well-being in my life.
Hope the reading of the above mentioned teachings will do the same for you or help in bringing perspective on the nature of the mind.
Somehow when I think of "masters" STEPHEN COVEY is not on that list..
If you want to progress in your life and grow, act not to react.
--Harbhajan Yogi Bhajan
Respond. Do not react.
--Osho
Just stay focused. Don't react. Just be a witness and you will see the magic of it.
--Swami Chidanand Saraswati
Be proactive. Do not be reactive.
--Stephen Covey ( Author of 7 habits of highly effective people )
Habitually we react to external stimuli, that is we are generally overwhelmed by retaliatory emotional forces within us demanding appropriate action. But surely this cannot be called 'action' , it is in fact ' re-action' . Discipline of the reasoning mind controls the reactive forces and results in appropriate 'action' rather than 're-action', one should endeavour to establish control and avoid retaliatory behaviour.
--Acharya Mahaprajna
Quality of life depends on what happens in the space between stimulus and response.
-- Stephen Covey
Because of the space between stimulus and response, people have the power of choice; therefore,leaders are neither born nor made — meaning environmentally trained and nurtured. They are self-made through chosen responses, and if they choose based on principles and develop increasingly greater discipline, their freedom to choose increases.
-- Stephen Covey
Reaction is unconscious. You do not know exactly that you are being manipulated. You are not aware that you are behaving like a slave, not like a master. Action out of consciousness is response.
-- Osho
You can act in two ways -- one is reaction, another is response.
Reaction comes out of your past conditionings; it is mechanical.
Response comes out of your presence, awareness, consciousness; it is non-mechanical.
The ability to respond is one of the greatest principles of growth. You are not following any order, any commandment; you are simply following your awareness. You are functioning like a mirror, reflecting the situation and responding to it -- not out of your memory from past experiences of similar situations, not repeating your reactions, but acting fresh, new, in this very moment. Neither the situation is old, nor your response -- both are new.
-- Osho
One who is obsessed with worldly pursuits, one who is body-oriented, cannot really go into this. We need to develop a distance from our mind and not give in to impulsiveness. Those who react are the ones who are living mindlessly. So in a way, we can say that living mindfully is being in meditation.
-- Anandmurti Gurumaa
So action which is born of reaction breeds sorrow. Most of our thoughts are the result of the past, of time. A mind that is not built on the past, that has totally understood this whole process of reaction, can act every minute totally, completely, wholly.
- J. Krishnamurti
Action which is born of reaction breeds sorrow.
- J. Krishnamurti
Is that why Bhuvaneshwar Kumar hardly shows any emotions after taking a wicket?
Then you are not talking about REaction, but reasoned (very quickly) response.
I suppose. Though in many cases, I believe the difference is minute enough to be virtually indiscernible. And semantics plays a part.
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