Greetings!
Although I basically already know that the behavior I'm about to describe doesn't constitute harassment in a legally actionable sense, I'm looking for some moral support in dealing with an overbearing, annoying landlord, as I'm stuck in my current situation until May 2013, unless someone sees something here that I don't.
I live in a walk-up in Philadelphia that is technically a historical row house in the Rittenhouse Square area. It has been renovated to 3 apartments, plus a museum space for the Romanian Folk Art Museum (takes up what would be 2 other small apartments). The landlord is the building and museum owner.
She recently has been around the building more often than previously since Aug 2012. In fact, she at times spends the night because her museum space also can accommodate a single guest. Nearly every time I leave my apartment and go down the stairs to the first floor, I'm accosted by her and chastised for something I did or didn't do that I should have done or not done.
I ran an errand earlier today and when I returned was informed by her that I let the outside door slam when I come/go and should not do this because it cracks the door. Not intentionally, I guess I just don't hold the door each time so that it gently closes. She claims I'm the first person to ever have lived in the bldg and done this.
Another example from a few months ago is when she asked me about my garbage. She said that she had checked the trashcans outside and saw "mine" was empty and wanted to know why.
We also have a situation of poor communication on her part upon move-in pertaining to initiating cable service. Turns out, I didn't need to start new service, as the building has service for the whole place, maintained by the museum. Just needed to somehow connect to this service (when we tried to hook up the TV to the existing box and cable line, nothing happened) and pay the landlord another $25/month. She provided no move-in instructions about any of this, nor did she respond to an email I sent her asking her what to do after we attempted to connect our TV. Now she wants the back money for the first 5 months I've lived here, and going forward I have to pay her this $25/month, IN ADDITION to my "own" cable bill since there is a $400 early termination fee!! Needless to say, when she communicated all of this to me, it was upon my arrival home from work as I was standing in the hallway, with all my work stuff, and it took a good 30-45 mins.
There are 2 20 somethings that live on the 3rd floor. Supposedly, it got so bad with one of them, that she doesn't even try to speak to the landlord woman anymore. She makes her roommate handle all of the communicating. I know they plan to move out May 2013 as well, and will populate as many renting/tenant websites as possible with their unfavorable remarks/review of their experience living here.
Any thoughts, insights, suggestions, etc. are very welcomed!