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Old 09-24-2015, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Central NY
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Nygal, it is sad but a blessed relief she is out of pain. Let us know if/when the moments of sadness are overwhelming so we can offer shoulders & prayers.

Curmudgeon, whew.
I am in a real state of being numb right now. Sleeping a lot (again). Relief to know she is not suffering anymore. When I was in her room this morning, I was so happy to see her caretakers come in and bend over to kiss her forehead and to cry. She was so loved by them, as she was by her daughter and me.

I can't begin to tell all of you how much I love you all and thank you for your kindnesses and caring ways.

 
Old 09-24-2015, 06:53 PM
 
Location: too far from the sea
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I am in a real state of being numb right now. Sleeping a lot (again). Relief to know she is not suffering anymore. When I was in her room this morning, I was so happy to see her caretakers come in and bend over to kiss her forehead and to cry. She was so loved by them, as she was by her daughter and me.

I can't begin to tell all of you how much I love you all and thank you for your kindnesses and caring ways.
That numb feeling is so normal when we are overwhelmed; I think a lot of us who have lost loved ones know it well. I'm sorry she's gone, but with the others, I do think she was lucky to have had you and she is now in a better place. Yes, it does make you feel better to see her caretakers missing her too. She truly was loved. Now just get your rest, do your grieving which, as we know, goes in phases of sadness, anger, back and forth, think it's gone but it comes back, and then someday, finally, acceptance.
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Old 09-24-2015, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Approximately 50 miles from Missoula MT/38 yrs full time after 4 yrs part time
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My sister passed early this morning. She is now out of any pain, physical or emotional, and living in peace now. I am on the fence about what I believe happens after death (for myself). But I want to believe she is in a much better place now. She suffered a long, hard, challenging life.
.....NYgal2NC.........

I am very sorry for the loss of your sister................my thoughts and prayers are with you......................
Montana Griz.
 
Old 09-24-2015, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Myrtle Beach
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Sorry for your loss.
 
Old 09-24-2015, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Approximately 50 miles from Missoula MT/38 yrs full time after 4 yrs part time
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For those who "followed" me a bit last week, the pathology report is in and no cancer. Looks like you're stuck with me for awhile longer.
......Hey Curm............ Glad you got the "good news"......We need all the "old Foogies we can scrape together" on this Forum..............even though "I'm-on-borrowed-time", I still take the 19 year old Jag Convert to Church on Sunday and "Drag-Main-Street" after Mass "Trolling-for Chicks"
 
Old 09-24-2015, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Central NY
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......Hey Curm............ Glad you got the "good news"......We need all the "old Foogies we can scrape together" on this Forum..............even though "I'm-on-borrowed-time", I still take the 19 year old Jag Convert to Church on Sunday and "Drag-Main-Street" after Mass "Trolling-for Chicks"

You have a great attitude..... you are an inspiration.

Always wanted a Jag.... my favorite car. Never drove one, but sure thought of it at times.
 
Old 09-25-2015, 05:07 AM
 
Location: SW MO
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......Hey Curm............ Glad you got the "good news"......We need all the "old Foogies we can scrape together" on this Forum..............even though "I'm-on-borrowed-time", I still take the 19 year old Jag Convert to Church on Sunday and "Drag-Main-Street" after Mass "Trolling-for Chicks"
Who could ask for more? After all, we're all on borrowed time. Some have just already borrowed more than others!
 
Old 09-25-2015, 05:49 AM
 
Location: Near a river
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......Hey Curm............ Glad you got the "good news"......We need all the "old Foogies we can scrape together" on this Forum..............even though "I'm-on-borrowed-time", I still take the 19 year old Jag Convert to Church on Sunday and "Drag-Main-Street" after Mass "Trolling-for Chicks"
I'm sure the Pope would approve.
 
Old 09-25-2015, 05:56 AM
 
Location: Near a river
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My sister passed early this morning. She is now out of any pain, physical or emotional, and living in peace now. I am on the fence about what I believe happens after death (for myself). But I want to believe she is in a much better place now. She suffered a long, hard, challenging life.
Your sister lights the way. That you had such a close relationship with each other is a gift to you both. Now perhaps it is time to take care of you, while keeping her in your heart.
 
Old 09-26-2015, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Central NY
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I brought my new cat home today. I'm naming her GG (good girl). She came right out of the crate and ran right behind the couch. Might be a while before she comes out.
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