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Have you ever heard the term compensating? It means in this case that you are looking for a fault in her to compensate for one in yourself. That supposed fault, however, still allows her to lead an independent life. She supports herself; you cannot or will not. Therefore, you must find something to knock her down, to make her your inferior. Oddly, or perhaps not so oddly, you only do this with women, your sister-in-law being the first who comes to mind. You really hate women. You feel good that your wife will work forever while you stay on your permanent vacation. That's why you constantly brag about it.
This is no great insight on my part; you've exhibited this attitude as long as I can remember. Have you ever wondered (I know you have) what would happen if you ever chanced to see the one whom you really despise and view as having the most inferior lifestyle, yourself?
"My wife just called me, on her way home from work and I told her about this thread, the responses I've got so far and how I've responded.......she was laughing while driving! Did I marry right or what?? Only word for that.....YES!![/quote]
Why do you keep bragging on the open forum about how your wife appreciates you? To me that bespeaks a deep-seated insecurity on your part. It is a turn-off when people brag about themselves. I note that some posters upthread here are turned off.
I wonder if he's posting these ridiculous questions to tick us off or if he really doesn't know how weird he sounds?
Loveboating . . . just curious (wh/ I hope you won't mind, since you describe yourself as curious) . . . do you ever worry that your wife will meet someone interesting at work? Or that she is gonna get ticked b/c you are not pulling your weight w/ the finances?
It seems you kind of skirt around those topics in a lot of your posts.
Ok, now I want all of you to read this!! Some of you need to LIGHTEN UPand/or be much less sensitive to joking/kidding!!
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Originally Posted by thatdurncat13
I'm alone and love it. (17yrs.) Well, except for 14 cats and 2 dogs. (I know, crazy cat lady). Family and friends used to tell me I needed to get a life. Then we'd all laugh. I've got one, thank you. It doesn't bother me a bit when someone says it to me.
Good one! Wife and I are both laughing........funny, but could be very true!
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Originally Posted by imcurious
Also, next time you are out and about, take a good look at the prospects in the older group . . . nose hair is not that attractive!
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