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Click on your name in the post. That should drop down a menu with options such as seeing your profile and LOOKING AT ALL YOUR POSTS.
Also because you posted in such an old thread I fear you may not get many responses to YOUR question…it's buried in this old thread. And people don't half read around here. So next time, notice if the thread is very old and if it is, start a new one with your question or situation.
As for your dilemma I really can't advise you. I've always been the kind of person who was very set on what I wanted in life, and what I was and was not willing to do. It just so happens that relocating for a relationship was one of those things I knew I wasn't willing to do. But that's just me. Millions of people do it everyday. Did you not think you'd have theses feelings, or just didn't think they'd be as strong?
I'd start a new thread if I wanted more responses or to get more thoughts and comments about what you might consider. I take it you're retired. If so the thread title could be something like"retired and moved away from family, but not happy."
Because if you''re not retired, there's nothing about your issue that's retirement related.