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Originally Posted by Drift Away
Had gotten to feeling like I was nearing the end of my prison sentence at work, dreaming of all the things I would do in retirement, and getting really frustrated in the process. It occurred to me that there was nothing stopping me from doing some of the stuff right now that I dreamed of in retirement, so I bought a kayak, started yoga classes, signed up for a painting class, just trying to be more satisfied in a situation I can do nothing about.............
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Of course it makes sense not to wait for retirement to do enjoyable stuff outside of the workplace. Your examples (kayaking, going to yoga, taking a class) are excellent, and good for you. But what I find amazing is that you decided rather late in the game to start doing those things. Why wouldn't you have devoted an entire lifetime to pursuits like those that you find interesting and enjoyable? To me, it goes without saying that we have hobbies and interests outside of the workplace. How could it be otherwise, unless one is working 70 or 80-hour weeks? I don't get the mind-set that everything must wait for retirement, and I'm glad for your sake that you broke away from that mind-set, even if somewhat late in the game.
Yes, I do realize that some people's careers preclude anything else. I have a cousin who's a top lawyer, and his workload is so demanding and overwhelming that there is no more room. He does go on "vacations", but when he is at the beach (for example) he is still on his cell phone, on his laptop conducting business. He makes
big money, and living that way is his choice. It wouldn't be my choice, and I doubt it's the situation of very many people posting in this thread.