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Old 02-12-2016, 10:58 AM
 
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Elliot, what happened to you is a virtual carbon copy (remember those?) of what happened to me, right down to the POS boss.

I was let go last May for the same excuse. I had been with the company for 28 years; always had excellent reviews; contributed much, especially in the computer area and creating great-looking proposals.

I got a small amount of money (couple thousand) and the company paid for my healthcare for three months. I was going to quit at the end of December anyway, but at the time I was putting more than two thousand dollars a month into my savings account, which I was counting on to live before I started collecting SS. After exhausting unemployment, I'm now living on my savings until I can collect SS at 65. I wanted to wait until 66, but I just can't.

Only real upside of that 'lay-off' was that I got to attend the trial of my supervisor's husband, who was found guilty of embezzling a quarter of a million dollars from his job. It would have been a little awkward if I had still been employed! hehe

You might want to look into getting health insurance from another source besides COBRA. Those payments are beyond ridiculous!
I think all will be ok. I had planned to go out in April when I turned 63, anyway. Now, I get some additional pay on top of that that I hadn't counted on. Just met this morning with my excellent FA for reassurance and I will have enough to wait until FRA for SS (how's that for a mouthful of abbreviations?)


This bosstard was on my a$$ all the time and I knew any infractions would move me to the top of the sh*t list. So, now I must accept it and move on and put pride on a back burner.


Here's to retirement! Not exactly the way I planned, but pretty darned close.
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Old 02-12-2016, 11:40 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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It took me a solid four months to get over it. I pretty much walked around like a zombie!

Just goes to show that the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry...but we soldier on!!

To a Mouse
By Robert Burns
On Turning up in Her Nest with the Plough, November, 1785 (or her job with a 'pink slip')

Wee, sleeket, cowran, tim’rous beastie,
O, what a panic’s in thy breastie!
Thou need na start awa sae hasty,
Wi’ bickerin brattle!
I wad be laith to rin an’ chase thee
Wi’ murd’ring pattle!

I’m truly sorry Man’s dominion
Has broken Nature’s social union,
An’ justifies that ill opinion,
Which makes thee startle,
At me, thy poor, earth-born companion,
An’ fellow-mortal!

I doubt na, whyles, but thou may thieve;
What then? poor beastie, thou maun live!
A daimen-icker in a thrave
’S a sma’ request:
I’ll get a blessin wi’ the lave,
An’ never miss ’t!

Thy wee-bit housie, too, in ruin!
It’s silly wa’s the win’s are strewin!
An’ naething, now, to big a new ane,
O’ foggage green!
An’ bleak December’s winds ensuin,
Baith snell an’ keen!

Thou saw the fields laid bare an’ waste,
An’ weary Winter comin fast,
An’ cozie here, beneath the blast,
Thou thought to dwell,
Till crash! the cruel coulter past
Out thro’ thy cell.

That wee-bit heap o’ leaves an’ stibble
Has cost thee monie a weary nibble!
Now thou’s turn’d out, for a’ thy trouble,
But house or hald,
To thole the Winter’s sleety dribble,
An’ cranreuch cauld!

But Mousie, thou art no thy-lane,
In proving foresight may be vain:
The best laid schemes o’ Mice an’ Men
Gang aft agley,
An’ lea’e us nought but grief an’ pain,
For promis’d joy!

Still, thou art blest, compar’d wi’ me!
The present only toucheth thee:
But Och! I backward cast my e’e,
On prospects drear!
An’ forward tho’ I canna see,
I guess an’ fear!
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Old 02-12-2016, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Nashville, TN
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I think all will be ok. I had planned to go out in April when I turned 63, anyway. Now, I get some additional pay on top of that that I hadn't counted on. Just met this morning with my excellent FA for reassurance and I will have enough to wait until FRA for SS (how's that for a mouthful of abbreviations?)


This bosstard was on my a$$ all the time and I knew any infractions would move me to the top of the sh*t list. So, now I must accept it and move on and put pride on a back burner.


Here's to retirement! Not exactly the way I planned, but pretty darned close.
Your posts sound bitter enough that this was definitely a blessing in disguise for you. No one deserves that kind of treatment.
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Old 02-12-2016, 12:08 PM
 
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Only real upside of that 'lay-off' was that I got to attend the trial of my supervisor's husband, who was found guilty of embezzling a quarter of a million dollars from his job. It would have been a little awkward if I had still been employed! hehe
Awesome.
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Old 02-12-2016, 12:26 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Awesome.
You're not kidding!

After years of her ragging on my you-know-what and having to listen to how she was better than anyone else, it was quite exciting to hear the handcuffs go click, click, click!

Now she has to work two jobs to handle their finances (he's in jail for three years).
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Old 02-12-2016, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque NM
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Your posts sound bitter enough that this was definitely a blessing in disguise for you. No one deserves that kind of treatment.
Well it doesn't sound like they gave him only 30 minutes to clean out his cubicle before escorting him offsite. That happened to my brother several times.
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Old 02-12-2016, 01:19 PM
 
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The nation is shooting itself in the foot allowing this crap to happen. By early retiring Boomers and soon to be, older Xers, the funding crises of SS and Medicare will be made even worse. This sort of action will burden the systems much more sharply and much earlier. Meanwhile, the revenue collection will get hammered, since those getting early retired are typically those who max out every year.

.... DOH! ....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCmuATH2yzo
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Old 02-12-2016, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Lake Norman, NC
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Well it doesn't sound like they gave him only 30 minutes to clean out his cubicle before escorting him offsite. That happened to my brother several times.
Wow... Around here your immediate manager boxes up your cubicle while you are getting your severance information from HR. Then you are walked out of the building and met at your car with your box(es) of personal items.
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Old 02-12-2016, 01:44 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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The nation is shooting itself in the foot allowing this crap to happen. By early retiring Boomers and soon to be, older Xers, the funding crises of SS and Medicare will be made even worse. This sort of action will burden the systems much more sharply and much earlier. Meanwhile, the revenue collection will get hammered, since those getting early retired are typically those who max out every year.
Tell it to the employers, who believe it's cost effective to let older workers go a couple of years before they can retire at 66.

I sent out quite a few resumes after I lost my job. Heard absolutely NOTHING back. They are all of the mindset that older workers 'cost' more, I guess, which doesn't really make sense, since it's the people in their 20s and 30s who are having babies and taking short term disability or family leave (or whatever it's called these days).

Oh, well. What do I know?

Meanwhile, so far I'm using my own money to live, not yours.
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Old 02-12-2016, 02:02 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN
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Tell it to the employers, who believe it's cost effective to let older workers go a couple of years before they can retire at 66.

I sent out quite a few resumes after I lost my job. Heard absolutely NOTHING back. They are all of the mindset that older workers 'cost' more, I guess, which doesn't really make sense, since it's the people in their 20s and 30s who are having babies and taking short term disability or family leave (or whatever it's called these days).

Oh, well. What do I know?

Meanwhile, so far I'm using my own money to live, not yours.
Depending on the industry, the youngest/lowest salaried workers are the most expensive.

I'm in IT, and while my salary is 50% higher than entry level, I can get work done twice as fast with less errors/mistakes. It's just the nature of experience. I'm not any smarter than the entry level people, except I've been doing it longer so I've already made the mistakes they don't realize they'll make yet.

How does the saying go? "The lowest cost isn't always the cheapest."
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