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Originally Posted by selhars
And BTW how is that -- keeping mom who is already IN a home out of state so you can't be held responsible -- any different from using legal, legitimate asset protection options YEARS BEFORE anyone is even thinking about a nursing home? Talk about intention?…. one is clearly doing it to avoid responsibility, in the other case there's not even a though about any nursing home. And for all we know a lawyer told the adult child to keep mom out of state just for that protection. Both are LEGAL.
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If you really have to ask that question, it's kind of pointless debating the point.
Let's consider two hypothetical circumstances.
In Case A, mom has a house and brokerage account worth $1 million evenly split between the house and the brokerage account. The house is sold to a child way below market rate. Say $100K. Mom continues to live in that house paying all the operating costs of the house. Maintenance, property taxes, utilities, insurance... The brokerage account is drained over several years by gifting $14,000 per year to each child, spouse of child, and grandchild. Let's say 2 married children with 2 grandchildren each so $100K of gifting every year. Or I use that account to pay grandkid college bills. I can make that woman look destitute on paper in a few years.
In Case B, mom has no house and has a brokerage account worth $300K. She has to go to assisted living and her run rate is $60K per year. I'm paying all the bills. In 5 years, she is destitute. I haven't received a dime of benefit and I'm certainly not being compensated for all the time I'm putting in managing my mother's affairs.
So it's now 5 years later. In Case A, the family has received $1 million in generational transfer. In Case B, all I've gotten is 5 years of huge hassles dealing with a senile mother. The senile mother now lands in a Dementia ward and Medicaid has to pick up the tab. She eventually then lands in a nursing home at even higher expense.
So you think there's no difference? I think that in Case A, the state is entirely correct to use filial law to claw back all the state money spent on Medicaid. In Case B, I'd tell another state it will be a cold day in hell before I voluntarily reimburse them for Medicaid expenses. They're not going to sue me under filial law because I have no assets in the state and it's unlikely it would hold up in a Federal court.
By the way, I'm one year into "Case B". It's my sister and my intention to pay the bills after my mother's resources are exhausted but if she's totally out of it in a nursing home not knowing anyone, we likely would stop paying.
People do "Case A" every day. With a bit of estate lawyer magic, you can even do it legally. That's why filial laws were enacted in the first place. To chase those people who drained the money so the state is stuck paying for nursing home care.