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I find so many of the subjects here in the Retirement forum to be depressing or negative about growing older. But I find that there is so much for which I can be thankful. I'd like to share a few of my reasons for being thankful to be at this stage of my life, and I hope that you'll share yours
I now have time to do so many enjoyable things that I didn't have the time to do while working.
I now have time to explore doing new things. For example, I'm trying my hand at writing a novel.
I'm thankful that my children turned out to be fine adults. As a single parent, I worried that I would fail them by not being both a father and mother to guide their steps.
I'm thankful that I found a wonderful spot for my retirement. It probably wouldn't suit many of your preferences, but it is really "home" to me.
I find so many of the subjects here in the Retirement forum to be depressing or negative about growing older. But I find that there is so much for which I can be thankful. I'd like to share a few of my reasons for being thankful to be at this stage of my life, and I hope that you'll share yours
I now have time to do so many enjoyable things that I didn't have the time to do while working.
I now have time to explore doing new things. For example, I'm trying my hand at writing a novel.
I'm thankful that my children turned out to be fine adults. As a single parent, I worried that I would fail them by not being both a father and mother to guide their steps.
I'm thankful that I found a wonderful spot for my retirement. It probably wouldn't suit many of your preferences, but it is really "home" to me.
I'm thankful for my new friends.
Your turn!
my list is similar to yours. It is the easiest time in my life since childhood.
I am thankful that I can live in reasonable comfort with some modest splurges without worrying about finances.
I am thankful that I live in an area which suits me and in which I feel totally comfortable and at home.
I am thankful that I have found, almost by accident, gratifying and meaningful activities which give me immense pleasure but which still leave enough "smell the flowers" time.
I am thankful that I still have a couple of good, long-time friends. That won't always be the case, as I am 73 and they are a few years older than I.
I am thankful that I have friendly relations with at least half a dozen cousins with whom I share memories going back to childhood.
I am thankful that I can still lug around extension ladders and do exterior painting from them for several hours at a time without ill effects. That may not always be the case depending on how long I live.
Life is good, and I am very fortunate, particularly as some aspects of the above are due to luck.
Even though I deal with bodywide OA and a recent knee "mess" I'm still very thankful for my life and especially having experienced living on East and now West Coast.
I find so many of the subjects here in the Retirement forum to be depressing or negative about growing older. But I find that there is so much for which I can be thankful. I'd like to share a few of my reasons for being thankful to be at this stage of my life, and I hope that you'll share yours
I now have time to do so many enjoyable things that I didn't have the time to do while working.
I now have time to explore doing new things. For example, I'm trying my hand at writing a novel.
I'm thankful that my children turned out to be fine adults. As a single parent, I worried that I would fail them by not being both a father and mother to guide their steps.
I'm thankful that I found a wonderful spot for my retirement. It probably wouldn't suit many of your preferences, but it is really "home" to me.
I'm thankful for my new friends.
Your turn!
All of the above except for me not having children. Location and friends, which probably go together, can make or break a happy retirement.
Location: We_tside PNW (Columbia Gorge) / CO / SA TX / Thailand
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I find so many of the subjects here in the Retirement forum to be depressing or negative about growing older. But I find that there is so much for which I can be thankful....
I'm thankful that I found a wonderful spot for my retirement. It probably wouldn't suit many of your preferences, but it is really "home" to me.
I'm thankful for my new friends.
Your turn!
Thankful for 'ya-all'...
I'm very thankful that I'm headed to "Cochise County, AZ" in a few minutes (a frequent retreat)
Transiting through "Yellowsnow's" thankful / 'set-free' home of LAS (often I extend my stay here, especially if I get a BUMP! (free future flights, (thankful)
It is the easiest time in my life since childhood. and for some of us... MUCH ez'r than childhood (Dairy Farm Boarding School / abusive homes / dysfunctional homes / addict homes / violent environments... ) Thankful for expanding interests-esp. in the area of music (I'm a musician)
Me too... June is a great 'making memories' enjoying music month. Last week attended a group /music event TEX (79th yr anniversary, several 'old' friends performed). Next week a group we formed 38 yrs ago performs in Colorado, Chamber Music Northwest Fest starts on the 24th of Jun! Jackson Hole (Tetons) & Aspen fests are in early July. Great life!
Thus, I'm thankful to have made it to this place in life, nothing short of a miracle got me here.
Thankful for my last breath and seeking to become more appreciative of my next breath (WIP). Especially if that next breath is inhaled in Cochise County!
Helping others is such a dynamic attitude adjustment for me. They are all in far worse shape than me, and most are very thankful for what (little) they have. (minimal Health and wealth). Most of them, I envy for their contentment / satisfaction with life. (a BIG / unconquered challenge for me)
Last edited by StealthRabbit; 06-09-2017 at 01:16 PM..
couple of thoughts. OP, you must not see the myriad numerous threads about how so many people LOVE retirement and how they enjoy their days of freedom, how they happily spend their time, activities that are satisfying, and many facets to their positive lives. If you scroll through the older threads, there are many positive threads!
I am thankful for so much, for each and every day, and for everything I have!! I feel a bit superstitious about listing any of them though. I don't like listing them or putting them in words. I'm so grateful and touting them doesn't seem right somehow -for me anyway.
Not that it isn't interesting reading what others are thankful for. Because it is. I am also so thankful for nature - and everything nature encompasses. Today is an UNREAL gorgeous splendid summer day. It's a wow!
Last edited by matisse12; 06-09-2017 at 01:25 PM..
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