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I dislike reviewing the past and having regrets about this or that. It is pointless. But I will say that I played around as much as I could and never saw a reason to think less partners was better than more partners.
^ This from someone that advocates killing babies before they are born on other threads..
Drop the moral superiority act...
Wow. Seriously? You equate someone who is pro-choice (for reasons I won't bother going into here, as this thread has NOTHING to do with abortion) with you saying you want to call a married man for sex? If so, your mind works in very odd ways.
I have never claimed moral superiority over all those in this thread who are saying they want more sex with strangers (or wish they'd had it). I don't UNDERSTAND it, at all, but it's their lives. But you posted that you wanted to call a man that you'd basically "missed out on" -- even though he is now married (which you made a point of telling us). I DO find that, well, not such a nice thing to do. To put it mildly.
Funny how I had a similar thought not long ago : Why was it so important for a girl to remain pure and chaste until marriage in my college days (late 60s and early 70s)?
Looking back as I was thinking of decisions made in my youth it occurred to me that either way would have worked in the end. It depended upon the 'who' you chose and the kind of person they were more than the level of sexual experience.
Guess I am in the things sort themselves out stage of life.
But no, I do not regret not sleeping with more people when I was younger. It would have been smarter to be more open to considerations though.
The reason it was important for a girl to "remain pure and chaste until marriage" was mainly because girls could (and did) become pregnant! The pill did not come out until 1960, and wasn't in mainstream use until many years later.
Girls who slept around would have the opportunity to have many children with many different guys - and the children would suffer from not having a stable home - so there was a good reason.
Also contributing would be sexism and keeping women "in their place" as a power/control move. Shame women over their sexuality, and control them. Basically, patriarchy.
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Holy crap!
