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Old 04-20-2019, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Podunk, IA
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My best friend died and his family are a bunch of goofs, so he named me executor.

It wasn't bad.
I just did exactly what his will said without exception and completely ignored his whiny kin. It got resolved in about a year.
My lawyer said I was a very good executor and did a very fine job.

Yes... you will need a lawyer.
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Old 04-20-2019, 04:55 PM
 
Location: equator
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We have no children and just named a charity as POD or TOD on our various accounts.

No probate, no wills, in the U.S. We did need a will for our condo here in Ecuador, but named the same charity. Very easy and the beneficiaries appreciated the no probate ease.
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Old 04-20-2019, 09:40 PM
 
Location: SLC
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Thank you very much for your responses. Very helpful! I do not believe our state has a fixed fee schedule.

We will look for a law firm that is focused on this area and go from there.
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Old 04-20-2019, 09:51 PM
 
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We had an attorney set up our family trust with all of our wishes laid out

Our 2 kids are joint executors, but the attorney could have handled everything if we wanted.
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Old 04-20-2019, 10:39 PM
 
Location: planet earth
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Whomever said 5% - wow!!!!! Google it to make sure that is correct.

In my state, last time I looked, it is whatever is considered "reasonable" and might be 1 or 2 percent.

On the other hand, banks can charge whatever they want - last time I checked a bank (couple of years ago), it was 3 percent.

There are also financial planners who specialize in this, and I found someone with very reasonable, hourly rates (can't recall now what it was - maybe $100 per hour?)

Do more research!
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Old 04-21-2019, 10:49 AM
 
Location: planet earth
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Plus: You can pay a family member whatever you want.
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Old 04-21-2019, 12:38 PM
 
Location: SLC
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As I stated, we do not have family members in the USA. The countries my wife and I are from have very different systems - and they would have no idea how to deal with these type of issues...

We will find a law firm/lawyer to name as backup executor.
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Old 04-21-2019, 12:40 PM
 
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Why not each of you name someone from out of the country for the last survivor to come to the states and handle the estate settlement? Set aside some funds or an insurance policy.

If they are going to get the goods why not handle the business? Then if retired there is the consideration of selling all you have and moving close to family.

Wish you the best.
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Old 04-21-2019, 03:46 PM
 
Location: Retired in VT; previously MD & NJ
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Just as a point of reference: the lawyer who recently did my will, POA, etc charges 2% to handle the estate. This is in NH.
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Old 04-22-2019, 08:33 AM
 
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Whomever said 5% - wow!!!!! Google it to make sure that is correct.

In my state, last time I looked, it is whatever is considered "reasonable" and might be 1 or 2 percent.

On the other hand, banks can charge whatever they want - last time I checked a bank (couple of years ago), it was 3 percent.

There are also financial planners who specialize in this, and I found someone with very reasonable, hourly rates (can't recall now what it was - maybe $100 per hour?)

Do more research!
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Compensation for an executor in Virginia is the sole discretion of the court which has jurisdiction over the estate. As a general guideline, an executor is entitled to whatever fee is fixed by the will. Where a specific fee was not fixed, the courts have considered reasonable a fee equal to 5% of the assets.
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