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Old 09-25-2019, 10:35 AM
 
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I have not lost interest at all but my fiance died and I really have to be in love for sex . I just feel used otherwise .
As I have gotten older it has become more of a spiritual experience , sort of like Catsy said . It's more about closeness/intimacy and bonding than just a physical need .
Sorry for your loss. More generally speaking, your comment reads much like a description of one of the fundamental differences between men and women. Did you by chance see my comment #281?

Best to you...
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Old 09-25-2019, 04:28 PM
 
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Is sex still important to me?

You betcha.

I ain't dead yet.

And even then I'd be stiff.

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Old 09-25-2019, 04:42 PM
 
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Oh, and today is my birthday, so i get birthday sex, i reminder of how i got here.

Used to be every day, sometimes more than once a day when we first got together. Now its its every other day, just once.

It'll be just like every other day.

Except that every other day was yesterday and tomorrow...so wooohoo! 3 days in a row!

I need a nap.


And now if you excuse me, i need my sleep...just thought I'd check my messages while i was, um, busy.


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Old 09-25-2019, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Bakersfield, Ca
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Sorry for your loss. More generally speaking, your comment reads much like a description of one of the fundamental differences between men and women. Did you by chance see my comment #281?

Best to you...
Oh that's a great post , I am glad I saw it . I hope that maybe something like that will happen to me- when I least expect it . I keep a good attitude and a positive outlook ( and I am still pretty silly ) so the death hasn't soured me on men or love/companionship or anything . I am just still really sad . I am actually taking steps now to sort of help me with this . I felt really happy when I read your post .
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Old 09-25-2019, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Spurs country. "Go, Spurs, Go!"
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Oh, and today is my birthday, so i get birthday sex, i reminder of how i got here.

Used to be every day, sometimes more than once a day when we first got together. Now its its every other day, just once.

It'll be just like every other day.

Except that every other day was yesterday and tomorrow...so wooohoo! 3 days in a row!

I need a nap.


And now if you excuse me, i need my sleep...just thought I'd check my messages while i was, um, busy.

Me singing: "Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear galaxyhi, Happy Birthday to youuuuuuuuuuuuuu! And many more....."
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Old 09-26-2019, 06:24 AM
 
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Me singing: "Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear galaxyhi, Happy Birthday to youuuuuuuuuuuuuu! And many more....."
Aw, shucks ( turns red).

Thanks, Lodestar!!!

I cant wait for later!

Third day in a row....i better nap BEFORE then
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Old Today, 11:43 AM
 
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Oh that's a great post , I am glad I saw it . I hope that maybe something like that will happen to me- when I least expect it . I keep a good attitude and a positive outlook ( and I am still pretty silly ) so the death hasn't soured me on men or love/companionship or anything . I am just still really sad . I am actually taking steps now to sort of help me with this . I felt really happy when I read your post .
You will no doubt enjoy this article I came across this morning...

My life in sex: ĎAt 70, Iím having great sexí

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeands...who-found-love
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Old Today, 11:45 AM
 
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Me singing: "Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear galaxyhi, Happy Birthday to youuuuuuuuuuuuuu! And many more....."
Best I can tell, galaxyhi is looking for something other than song on his birthday...
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