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Old Today, 09:08 AM
 
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We are still interested in it. I love giving my wife pleasure, and she enjoys it. I have some ongoing problems so getting to a climax is pretty difficult. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
You are a wonderful DH.
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Old Today, 09:09 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Nostalgia sex?
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Old Today, 09:10 AM
 
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No, not for me, and not for about ten years when my husband started having "problems". I missed it very much at first, but now I have just accepted the loss of any kind of sex life and find that I no longer even miss it, although sometimes I will feel a "pang" remembering how it was with us. However, my husband is a wonderful man and we have a very good marriage, so I am VERY thankful for my marriage. Also, my husband is still very affectionate, so it really is no big deal. (And even the possibility of having sex with any other man is just a gigantic turn-off for me.)
Having someone warm to cuddle with, is also very nice.
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Old Today, 09:27 AM
 
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I got it all out of my system while i was still young!
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Old Today, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Carolina Shores NC
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I got it all out of my system while i was still young!
Same here. Iím almost 69. Itís no longer important
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Old Today, 09:34 AM
 
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food is taking first place ... i now have the mirror over the kitchen table .....
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Old Today, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Emerald Coast, FL
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We've had sex almost daily for 20 years. In recent years have slowed down a bit so twice daily was less frequent. I recently retired, and we both want to increase the frequency again as we both love sex and make it a priority. And being retired gives us more time for sex and all the other things we love to do.
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Old Today, 09:38 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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One of the reasons I got divorced is because I lost interest in sex and was tired of being pestered for it.
I have never figured out why ANYONE thinks nagging for sex is an effective technique. If someone nags you to do the laundry, do you rush right into the laundry room and load the washer? Or do you think, "In your dreams, jerkface?"
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Old Today, 09:39 AM
 
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We've had sex almost daily for 20 years. In recent years have slowed down a bit so twice daily was less frequent. I recently retired, and we both want to increase the frequency again as we both love sex and make it a priority. And being retired gives us more time for sex and all the other things we love to do.
i think if i had to do that i would get like a butler to help lol
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Old Today, 09:40 AM
 
Location: Moore, Ok
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We are still interested in it. I love giving my wife pleasure, and she enjoys it. I have some ongoing problems so getting to a climax is pretty difficult. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
Pretty much were we are at. Something else that changes and just go with the flow. We told each other long ago that our love is not based on ability to have intercourse. We do what we can
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