Retirees, is sex still important to you? (call, 55, years)
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I think I've been reading a lot of fairy tales on these replies.
Why is it men think intimacy is S e x and Women think it is the closeness and love that comes before during and after s e x? That's where the real problem lies.
I think I've been reading a lot of fairy tales on these replies.
Why is it men think intimacy is S e x and Women think it is the closeness and love that comes before during and after s e x? That's where the real problem lies.
That and health problems.
men play at love to get sex and women play at sex to get love
Why is it men think intimacy is S e x and Women think it is the closeness and love that comes before during and after s e x? That's where the real problem lies.
If I were any closer to my wife during sex, I'd be behind her!
not in every case. Some people simply have a low sex drive by nature, or are even asexual. It's not a "problem", it's simply the way they are hardwired:
describing an asexual person as someone with a 'problem that needs to be addressed' is no more correct than making that same statement about someone who is homosexual. (of course there are people who do feel that way about homosexuals, unfortunately, but just making the point that asexual persons don't need to be "fixed" any more than homosexuals do. Which is, not at all.)
Wow, that 50 mark hits home for me. That was the year my late husband and I were supposed to ride our Harleys, yes I had my own, to Sturgis. That was the year he died and my life effectively ended. Sex with him was the best I ever had. That was 18yrs ago, the morning of his death was the last time for me. Lack of a partner who could possibly measure up in any dept rather than interest is the reason. I did try once to find someone, but was treated so poorly that one time, I gave up looking. I tried taking care of my own needs, but it only caused me emotional pain, so gave that up too. I am still deeply in love with someone who is gone. Them cowboy boots were just too big to fill.
Why is it men think intimacy is S e x and Women think it is the closeness and love that comes before during and after s e x? That's where the real problem lies.
Female here. I'm VERY happy to be in a relationship with both! I'd definitely feel the lack if I had either without the other.
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