Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Retirement
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 09-30-2009, 09:16 AM
 
204 posts, read 683,743 times
Reputation: 65

Advertisements

living in the U.S. has proven to be almost always about one thing! Retirement!
everyone is "living to retire!"....it's an ultimate goal and you better be ready for it!!! how silly! People don't understand that there needs to be a balance! live well now, prepare so you can live well later also! that's what i believe it should be!

i wanted to know if people here are overly concerned about retirement.....or have they found that balance. I'd also be interested in hearing about how much you've stashed away and at what age....

i'm 28, working for 6 years, 42k in 401k, 20k stocks, 75k equity in houses, and that's about it. most calculators put me at the bottom to midle of the chart as far as saving for retirement. I don't want to kill myself now with saving just so that i can have money in retirement (and then die at 75! lol)
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 09-30-2009, 09:19 AM
 
106,668 posts, read 108,810,853 times
Reputation: 80154
its like fighting a war. you need to support all fronts and not pull from one to prop up another. you need money for now, money for later, money for those expenses not even on the radar.... it isnt easy and requires strict discipline but thats what it takes to pull this off...

of course having one of those rare jobs with a pension makes things easier but good luck finding one of those..
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 10:20 AM
 
Location: SW MO
23,593 posts, read 37,475,357 times
Reputation: 29337
Quote:
Originally Posted by mathjak107 View Post
its like fighting a war. you need to support all fronts and not pull from one to prop up another. you need money for now, money for later, money for those expenses not even on the radar.... it isnt easy and requires strict discipline but thats what it takes to pull this off...

of course having one of those rare jobs with a pension makes things easier but good luck finding one of those..
Precisely! Makes all the difference in the world. Thankfully, I found one many years ago, as did my wife. Of course, a little fiscal discipline goes a long way as well.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 12:05 PM
 
7,899 posts, read 7,111,289 times
Reputation: 18603
I am not sure what charts you are looking at but I seriously doubt you are anywhere near the "bottom of the middle" when it comes to savings. The vast majority of young and middle aged people seem to have more debt than assets. It seems that you are doing well and starting early towards retirement savings

......beyond that you are way too young to be reading a forum about retirement. Get out there and live.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 12:28 PM
 
Location: UK
296 posts, read 802,945 times
Reputation: 326
For being only 28, you are in great shape.

One doesn't need to scrimp and save every last dime for retirement. Just being prudent with money and keeping debt low is the main thing.

Consider carefully compound interest - make it work for you, not against you.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 01:28 PM
 
31,683 posts, read 41,037,032 times
Reputation: 14434
One of the best ways to prepare for retirement is to minimize spending now. Every dollar not spent is one more to be available when you retire. Your retirement nest egg is what you have day 1 and are projected to have/get after that.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 01:39 PM
 
819 posts, read 1,592,465 times
Reputation: 1407
We are both retired (63 & 66) and so far have not had to touch any of our investments (such as they are). We are probably doing as well now as when we were working - but we know that inflation will catch up with us one of these days. We do pretty much what we want to do. Everything we have is paid for - house, 2 cars, etc. We pay the credit card in full and never carry a balance.

We will probably have a nice inheritance (sp) when my in-laws are no longer here and that will go to our kids eventually. But, we are not sitting around and not enjoying ourselves. We have a little running around money for our fun stuff.

Our house is 23 years old and both of our vehicles are fairly new - 2004 & 2006, so they will last a long time. House is not as nice as a lot of our friends, but we like it and they all love to come. Eventually, we will have to downsize and buy something else and we should be able to pay cash for it.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 01:47 PM
 
204 posts, read 683,743 times
Reputation: 65
Quote:
Originally Posted by TuborgP View Post
One of the best ways to prepare for retirement is to minimize spending now. Every dollar not spent is one more to be available when you retire. Your retirement nest egg is what you have day 1 and are projected to have/get after that.
this is the exact mentality that i'm talking about!
i think there are things that are best experienced NOW as opposed to when you retire and are old! don't you think?
i think that if there is a balance, between enjoying life now and saving for tomorrow, then you wouldn't have to worry so much about the last 20 years of life as opposed to living the first 60!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 01:53 PM
 
Location: DC Area, for now
3,517 posts, read 13,260,698 times
Reputation: 2192
In the retirement forum, there is a lot of posting about saving for and managing money for retirement. It has a lot to do with the forum topic. I don't see folks here doing nothing but saving money for retirement. There are lots of posts about how to live in retirement and what makes for a rewarding life.

At any stage of life, you can choose to live within your means or you can choose to spend more than you can afford. For me, being prudent with my money has meant I had security throughout my life and I get to retire too, all the while enjoying many things that give me a rewarding life. I do not find enjoyment in pretending I have lots more money than I really do or in running up huge debts I would have trouble paying. But that's just me.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2009, 02:20 PM
 
106,668 posts, read 108,810,853 times
Reputation: 80154
Whatever you do time is your friend the younger you start the easier it is to grow some nice chunks of dough..

everytime i used to find it a struggle to keep funding my retirement plan thru the decades i would remind my self if i was finding it difficult now with a paycheck making ends meet how was i going to do it when the checks stop.... i would always mange to come up with the money some how to sock it away. id always pay me first, just like a bill
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Retirement

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 06:41 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top