First I want to say we are southerners at heart. We were in FL and truly happy and got tossed in Pittsburgh PA and that was a NIGHTMARE! I am terrified that things could be worse or as bad but trying to look to the brightside. So that said when giving me advice help me find somewhere not infiltrated with rude displaced yankees that will do nothing but make fun of my accent and look at us like we have no right being there. Not to offend anyone just wanted to help you understand what I want.
My husband will be working in North Richmond off East Parham Rd. He doesnt want a brutal commute but 30 min isnt too bad. I dont want to be like it was in PA where there is 2 feet between the houses, I want some yard for my kids to play. I also want decent schools.
As for cost $1100 or less for preferably 4 bedrooms or 3 and a decent size living room. I want things like the grocery store and walmart convenient I dont want to drive an hour to get milk if I need it. And easy access to the main highways or interstate.
I was thinking Mechanicsville, (i doubt i pronounce it right lol) or maybe down in Chester.
Sorry if It seems like I'm asking alot, but I thought (esp after reading other posts) that I should be thorough. Also we dont plan to spend the rest of our lives in VA. As soon as an equal or better position is available at my hubbys companyt in central FL we're back there. So I'm probally not so into high schools or buying a house. Oh and I am expecting a child in winter, how are the hospitals and doctors? Any recommendations

Thanks in advance, I appreciate it!