I saw this title to a thread in NJ (where I currently live) and I thought it was a good way to know where
not to move!
Anyway, my husband and I are looking to move out of NJ - possibly to Southern VA or Northern NC. We don't want to live near the coast of either state (would like to live somewhere between mid-state to mountain area).
Can anyone on here compare the two areas of these states? Like list the positives/negatives of each state/counties?
We looked into Roanoke area a lot, liked the sound of it... maybe could someone suggest what towns in Roanoke/Bedford/Franklin counties are good for what we are looking for?
Any suggestions/advice would be helpful! Thanks!
More Info about us:
young married couple w/ two kids looking to buy a home on a decent sized lot (at least 1/2 acre but no more than 5 acres)
Not looking for anything in a very rural/farming community, but not a crowded city, either - would like the perfect blend of both

Something not too far away from supermarkets, retail stores, etc. but where you aren't crowded in a neighborhood jam packed with houses side by side.
My husband currently is assistant produce manager in a supermarket; would probably look for the same line of work in VA...anyone know around what salary he would expect?
What is minimum wage in VA?
How are property taxes in the counties i mentioned above?
Also, what is VA state tax?
Gas prices?